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This is a longshot, but I'm so desperate.
I have a 4.5-year-old male cat, and ever since we got him as a kitten, I remember him as always being the "playful biting" kind, AKA the cat that isn't extremely affectionate. That being said, he keeps to himself, naps a lot, and goes outside at nights but stays inside the majority of the day.
My 19 month old nephew lives with us, and last night my cat scratched him by the eye twice, deep and bleeding. My cat has bitten and scratched me before, but that's when I play with him. Basically, he minds his own business unless engaged with or annoyed.
My brother (his father) is moving out in 2 months, and we assumed the cat would go with them. Oh, and my parents (more specifically, my mother) don't like our cat, so they're fine with him leaving. Unfortunately, because of what happened our cat has to leave my family entirely. The only people arguing for my cat to stay and for his general well-being are my sister and me.
My family's options are: declaw him or give him away (to someone else, a shelter, adoption agency...). Declawing is absolutely TERRIBLE, so that'll never be an option, and giving him away breaks my heart. He's not too old, (maybe I'm being too cynical about this) but who's going to adopt a 4-5 year old cat that isn't that affectionate? He doesn't like strangers. I also don't wanna give him away because I love him and I'm his favorite member in my family (though I'm in college so I'm not home every so often), I can't part with him.
What do I do? I wanna argue to keep my cat at home but I doubt my parents will allow it, and I won't let them declaw him or give him up. Yes, I understand a baby's state/health/care is more important than a cat, but the cat should be given a second thought, no? Immediately deciding the fate of a cat is terrible, and no one is considering what would happen to him.
I know there are claw caps, but my cat isn't patient enough for me to put them on him. I wanna argue that he stay in my brother or nephew's rooms when they move (my mother wants new furniture desperately because he hates scratching posts, so she doesn't want him near it) or when they come home to visit. Literally anything else. I'd really appreciate some feedback, I don't know if this will get anything in return but please give me some insight or something.
I have a 4.5-year-old male cat, and ever since we got him as a kitten, I remember him as always being the "playful biting" kind, AKA the cat that isn't extremely affectionate. That being said, he keeps to himself, naps a lot, and goes outside at nights but stays inside the majority of the day.
My 19 month old nephew lives with us, and last night my cat scratched him by the eye twice, deep and bleeding. My cat has bitten and scratched me before, but that's when I play with him. Basically, he minds his own business unless engaged with or annoyed.
My brother (his father) is moving out in 2 months, and we assumed the cat would go with them. Oh, and my parents (more specifically, my mother) don't like our cat, so they're fine with him leaving. Unfortunately, because of what happened our cat has to leave my family entirely. The only people arguing for my cat to stay and for his general well-being are my sister and me.
My family's options are: declaw him or give him away (to someone else, a shelter, adoption agency...). Declawing is absolutely TERRIBLE, so that'll never be an option, and giving him away breaks my heart. He's not too old, (maybe I'm being too cynical about this) but who's going to adopt a 4-5 year old cat that isn't that affectionate? He doesn't like strangers. I also don't wanna give him away because I love him and I'm his favorite member in my family (though I'm in college so I'm not home every so often), I can't part with him.
What do I do? I wanna argue to keep my cat at home but I doubt my parents will allow it, and I won't let them declaw him or give him up. Yes, I understand a baby's state/health/care is more important than a cat, but the cat should be given a second thought, no? Immediately deciding the fate of a cat is terrible, and no one is considering what would happen to him.
I know there are claw caps, but my cat isn't patient enough for me to put them on him. I wanna argue that he stay in my brother or nephew's rooms when they move (my mother wants new furniture desperately because he hates scratching posts, so she doesn't want him near it) or when they come home to visit. Literally anything else. I'd really appreciate some feedback, I don't know if this will get anything in return but please give me some insight or something.