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So my Lucky girl was diagnosed with retinal atrophy and has been totally blind for about 6 months. She's gone through depression and anxiety as she's lost her sight but has finally come to accept her new normal - though it's a little depressing for me as her momma to see her so changed from the excitable kitten she used to be.
Here's a bit of background.
She loves to go outside and "watch" birds and lizards (fwiw she wears a harness and is attached to a 25 foot lead and sunk-in spiral and only goes out if someone is home) and lay in the sun. She is what I would call "needy" and constantly wants to be near myself, my husband, or our grandmother who lives with us, but I suspect that's not unusual for a cat that perhaps feels lonely and anxious. She's what I call a lazy cat - she doesn't chase after things when I throw them, doesn't jump on things (she hates high places) and only goes on the second level of her four-story cat tree because there's a ramp she's familiar with. She does not engage with catnip AT ALL and only eats grass that grows in the yard.
Now for my dilemma.
I've been struggling on my own to try and find ways to engage her in play for when I am not at home and she has to be inside, and when I am with her and can actually play with her. I feel like I have come up short. The toys "for sale" are mostly for sighted cats or for visual stimulation, and sound-related toys are small or do not typically move "on their own" in a way that would allow her to chase after them without frightening her.
My vet recommended leaving bird noises on while I am at work, which I have been doing, but that doesn't seem to be helping much. She also loves anime which I try and leave on but I've been having issues finding anime that plays for 8 or more hours.
She does love the sound of "heavy" objects rolling around or things being dragged across the carpet/floor - so hard balls rolling on hardwood, or hard plastic balls in a track (her favorite toy, if she can locate the ball), or mommy dragging a stick along the ground - which gets tiring for mommy and can't be done while I'm at work. She will run up and down our stairs if there's something interesting to chase - say the little cherries with the plastic jingle instead of the metal jingle.
However she doesn't completely engage with these things like she used to engage with toys - she will be interested for like 2 minutes and then just lay down and twitch her tail and maybe bat at the toy if it comes towards her.
I know cats are very different, and this may just be who she is, but I want her to be excited and chase after things and idk be more cat-like.
And while I really do think it's adorable that she waits for me by the door when I get home each day, I know it's a sign of anxiety and I would like to do my best to try and reduce it for her.
Now, ideally I would love to get a seeing-eye cat for her that is her companion that keeps her company, but that is not an option that is available to me right now.
So I need ideas for toys - heck, if I have to build them myself I will! - so that my baby can be entertained while I am at work and engaged when I try and play with her at home.
Maybe once her play issues are resolved, we can tackle the fact that she doesn't cuddle like she used to....
Here's a bit of background.
She loves to go outside and "watch" birds and lizards (fwiw she wears a harness and is attached to a 25 foot lead and sunk-in spiral and only goes out if someone is home) and lay in the sun. She is what I would call "needy" and constantly wants to be near myself, my husband, or our grandmother who lives with us, but I suspect that's not unusual for a cat that perhaps feels lonely and anxious. She's what I call a lazy cat - she doesn't chase after things when I throw them, doesn't jump on things (she hates high places) and only goes on the second level of her four-story cat tree because there's a ramp she's familiar with. She does not engage with catnip AT ALL and only eats grass that grows in the yard.
Now for my dilemma.
I've been struggling on my own to try and find ways to engage her in play for when I am not at home and she has to be inside, and when I am with her and can actually play with her. I feel like I have come up short. The toys "for sale" are mostly for sighted cats or for visual stimulation, and sound-related toys are small or do not typically move "on their own" in a way that would allow her to chase after them without frightening her.
My vet recommended leaving bird noises on while I am at work, which I have been doing, but that doesn't seem to be helping much. She also loves anime which I try and leave on but I've been having issues finding anime that plays for 8 or more hours.
She does love the sound of "heavy" objects rolling around or things being dragged across the carpet/floor - so hard balls rolling on hardwood, or hard plastic balls in a track (her favorite toy, if she can locate the ball), or mommy dragging a stick along the ground - which gets tiring for mommy and can't be done while I'm at work. She will run up and down our stairs if there's something interesting to chase - say the little cherries with the plastic jingle instead of the metal jingle.
However she doesn't completely engage with these things like she used to engage with toys - she will be interested for like 2 minutes and then just lay down and twitch her tail and maybe bat at the toy if it comes towards her.
I know cats are very different, and this may just be who she is, but I want her to be excited and chase after things and idk be more cat-like.
And while I really do think it's adorable that she waits for me by the door when I get home each day, I know it's a sign of anxiety and I would like to do my best to try and reduce it for her.
Now, ideally I would love to get a seeing-eye cat for her that is her companion that keeps her company, but that is not an option that is available to me right now.
So I need ideas for toys - heck, if I have to build them myself I will! - so that my baby can be entertained while I am at work and engaged when I try and play with her at home.
Maybe once her play issues are resolved, we can tackle the fact that she doesn't cuddle like she used to....