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Hi Everyone!
I’m hoping someone can help us here as my husband and I are new to the cat world! We have a very sweet orange tabby male who is about to be one year old. He is home alone all day so we thought it would be best to get him a playmate while he is still young. We just adopted a buff tabby female. She’s been home for just over a week now. We’ve tried to follow all of the directions that we’ve read online for introducing them, and aside from some hissing and batting from the male cat things were moving along nicely. She was very confident in her new surroundings right away, but out male cat is still leery. It’s gotten to a point now that whenever we allow the cats to be around each other he runs right for her. He usually starts by sniffing her behind and then pins her down with licks or nibbles that then progress into biting - no hissing from him. Eventually her ears go back and she starts hissing. My husband and I step in to break it up because we don’t know how far it is safe to let them go. He is about 12 pounds and she is 3. As soon as we separate them she runs right back to him for more or he chases right after her for more. Is this play? Any suggestions on what we can do to help them get along as quickly as possible?
Thanks so much!
Sincerely,
Olivia
I’m hoping someone can help us here as my husband and I are new to the cat world! We have a very sweet orange tabby male who is about to be one year old. He is home alone all day so we thought it would be best to get him a playmate while he is still young. We just adopted a buff tabby female. She’s been home for just over a week now. We’ve tried to follow all of the directions that we’ve read online for introducing them, and aside from some hissing and batting from the male cat things were moving along nicely. She was very confident in her new surroundings right away, but out male cat is still leery. It’s gotten to a point now that whenever we allow the cats to be around each other he runs right for her. He usually starts by sniffing her behind and then pins her down with licks or nibbles that then progress into biting - no hissing from him. Eventually her ears go back and she starts hissing. My husband and I step in to break it up because we don’t know how far it is safe to let them go. He is about 12 pounds and she is 3. As soon as we separate them she runs right back to him for more or he chases right after her for more. Is this play? Any suggestions on what we can do to help them get along as quickly as possible?
Thanks so much!
Sincerely,
Olivia