My cat isn't eating or drinking. My vet told me to force feed him if neccessary. When I inject the food into his mouth, he fights & he has a look of panic in his eyes. He is newly adopted from the humane society. He is about 5yrs. I've had him for 5 days now & he's been to the vet twice. Is the stress of a new home, & getting over a cold, & my forcing him to eat making him worse? What should I do? I have offerred him anything & everything I can think of to eat & drink & he won't. Sometimes I feel like he just doesn't care & wants to die.