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I discovered this within days of meeting him because he was on antibiotics and I wanted the steam from the bath to help clear up his nose. I did not take baths prior to his adoption but since he loved being near it and he was sticking around the whole time rather than running away from me..
I began to do that more often and now 6 months later I do this every day to get the time with him where he is comfortable with me. When he was 3lbs he would lay on the edge of the bath but he grew too large to fit so now I’ve been putting progressively larger “nightstand” tables next to the bath as he gets bigger. Despite all my best efforts to get close and bond with him in other areas of the house, this is the only situation in which he will approach me and let his guard down so I can touch him for more than the usual 1-3 seconds of contact I can get in the rest of the house.
If I try to touch him or wait for him to approach in any other situation he walks away or wriggles out of my hands if I’m holding him. Sometimes even runs away as I take a step towards him. As soon as he hears the bath though he comes over and flops down on his table, completely comfortable with me and happy to be pet and talked to.. when he would usually keep his distance 100% of the time literally anywhere else in the house I spend time.
It’s not the heat of it, I’ve tried a heater to keep my room at the same temp as the bathroom during a bath and he avoided my room at all costs so I gave up on that because he would cry until I turned it off and the temp got back to the same temp as the rest of the house(70°F). Its also not that he is thirsty, he doesn’t drink the water he has a good fountain that he uses a lot.
I’m stumped on this and have tried everything to find what aspect of this situation he likes so I can replicate it elsewhere and allow him to feel comfortable with me.
I began to do that more often and now 6 months later I do this every day to get the time with him where he is comfortable with me. When he was 3lbs he would lay on the edge of the bath but he grew too large to fit so now I’ve been putting progressively larger “nightstand” tables next to the bath as he gets bigger. Despite all my best efforts to get close and bond with him in other areas of the house, this is the only situation in which he will approach me and let his guard down so I can touch him for more than the usual 1-3 seconds of contact I can get in the rest of the house.
If I try to touch him or wait for him to approach in any other situation he walks away or wriggles out of my hands if I’m holding him. Sometimes even runs away as I take a step towards him. As soon as he hears the bath though he comes over and flops down on his table, completely comfortable with me and happy to be pet and talked to.. when he would usually keep his distance 100% of the time literally anywhere else in the house I spend time.
It’s not the heat of it, I’ve tried a heater to keep my room at the same temp as the bathroom during a bath and he avoided my room at all costs so I gave up on that because he would cry until I turned it off and the temp got back to the same temp as the rest of the house(70°F). Its also not that he is thirsty, he doesn’t drink the water he has a good fountain that he uses a lot.
I’m stumped on this and have tried everything to find what aspect of this situation he likes so I can replicate it elsewhere and allow him to feel comfortable with me.