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Hi everyone,
I don't know if this is a worrying or positive sight or not because I've never owned more than one cat at once before.
Lately my 4 year old desexed male has taken to grooming our female (not desexed- too young yet) 13 week year old kitten.At first it was nerve wracking for me to watch and then I came to see it as sweet. I was just watching the pair then and Willie would gently bite her scruff and then lick her ears and top of her head. She seemed content enough, purring and lying still. Willie sometimes got her in a headlock with his feet. This went on for some time, scruff biting and licking her. Eventually though he clamped on for some time and didn't let her go. I eventually unprised the two but she didn't seem concerned.
I feel like this could be a few things. I'd like it to be positive bonding but it seems a bit more of a control/power situation. I also wonder whether it is a pseudo sexual thing for my boy cat, despite his de sexing. If it is, should I be worried? I don't know.
Any thoughts would be great.
Cheers.
I don't know if this is a worrying or positive sight or not because I've never owned more than one cat at once before.
Lately my 4 year old desexed male has taken to grooming our female (not desexed- too young yet) 13 week year old kitten.At first it was nerve wracking for me to watch and then I came to see it as sweet. I was just watching the pair then and Willie would gently bite her scruff and then lick her ears and top of her head. She seemed content enough, purring and lying still. Willie sometimes got her in a headlock with his feet. This went on for some time, scruff biting and licking her. Eventually though he clamped on for some time and didn't let her go. I eventually unprised the two but she didn't seem concerned.
I feel like this could be a few things. I'd like it to be positive bonding but it seems a bit more of a control/power situation. I also wonder whether it is a pseudo sexual thing for my boy cat, despite his de sexing. If it is, should I be worried? I don't know.
Any thoughts would be great.
Cheers.