Alright, well we are past the super excited 8 month old (Yuri) and scared 2.5/almost 3 mo old kitten (Merida) stage. Yuri and Merida play together well with some supervision, and Merida has been observed seeking out Yuri... and her tail.
The learning curve now is around Merida "tolerating" Yuri's baths. She really doesn't seem to like it and wants to be alone much more than Yuri. Yuri will approach Meri when sleeping/still and wrap a paw around her and begin to bathe her, and Meri will pretty quickly begin to protest. It's not really hissing or growling, she'll make a long sound like a growl but much less deep - it's almost chittering? it just seems like the message is "no, no, no" (or maybe "ughhh?") even if it's softer than any cat warning sounds I know. Meri doesn't seem like she's in distress, but she's also not super comfortable, and this happens so frequently (Yuri is besotted with her) that it seems Meri has begun avoiding Yuri during resting times?
So, should I step in at all when Meri makes these protesting sounds? I have been - she is at such a size disadvantage right now, but I'm just wondering if it's better to let them play this out on their own / what cat people think about this dynamic?
The learning curve now is around Merida "tolerating" Yuri's baths. She really doesn't seem to like it and wants to be alone much more than Yuri. Yuri will approach Meri when sleeping/still and wrap a paw around her and begin to bathe her, and Meri will pretty quickly begin to protest. It's not really hissing or growling, she'll make a long sound like a growl but much less deep - it's almost chittering? it just seems like the message is "no, no, no" (or maybe "ughhh?") even if it's softer than any cat warning sounds I know. Meri doesn't seem like she's in distress, but she's also not super comfortable, and this happens so frequently (Yuri is besotted with her) that it seems Meri has begun avoiding Yuri during resting times?
So, should I step in at all when Meri makes these protesting sounds? I have been - she is at such a size disadvantage right now, but I'm just wondering if it's better to let them play this out on their own / what cat people think about this dynamic?