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Hello.. How can I my old cat not feel jealous with new kitten anymore?
Sorry I wasn't clear about testing for dehydration! What Denice saidThank you for that.. I just wanted to confirm something. If I pull up skin b/n shoulder blades and it snap back immediately, is that normal? What is normal when you do that??
Also what are these? Composure liquid added to food, Rescue Remedy for Pets, Spirit Essences, Comfort Zone spray, Feliway diffusers? I just wnated to further understand..
I really love my cats but I just got aware of responsible cat parenting recently when I lost my old cats mother. I thought its enough to just feed and pet them. So I wanted to know what I need to do so I can take care of them and they'll be healthy and will have a long life..
Even though you did apparently do introductions incorrectly(I say that with respect), it sounds as if the two are getting along extremely well so I would not make any changes as far as they are concerned. Leave things the way they are going for now. It is very possible that your adult cat has accepted the kitten but still is quite stressed about the new family member. Make sure, certain, that you are giving the 3 year old cat lots and lots of extra attention even if that means bringing him to your bed to snuggle and sleep. Continue the hand feeding if that is how you are able to get food into him at the moment. Do you free-feed? or schedule feed? Does the kitten bombard your cat during feeding or push him out of his bowl? There are many, many canned food available to help entice a picky eater to eat. I am thinking this is just your cat's way of showing that he is a bit stressed but separating them after they have already been together, and are getting along famously, may cause more issues and stress, IMO. So best to keep things the same and try to comfort your three year old with extra special treats, special canned foods and playtime. Hopefully in another week he will return to his usual self. If he does not, then a vet check is important.
Kittens should eat about 25 or more calories per pound. Adult cats should eat at least 15 or more calories per pound (more for weight gain). IF he is not eating at all, then this is extremely dangerous and needs the vet and needs to be syringe fed. BUT, he is eating from your hand so continue that right now as it seems he needs the security. Keep us posted !!!!
OH this IS WONDERFUL news and a great update. I love this when it happens. I kinda figured that your three year old was just going through the motions of adjusting to the new addition to the family. Time, love and patience does wonders and a little extra attention and doting. Very happy and enjoy your new little family all together. I think things will only get better and you won't have to worry. This is all good and I can't see things going the other way. Kittens are usually very easy to bring in because they are so easy going and pretty flexible.My 3 year old cat is really sweet and very loving..I really love him for that. What I have notice now is he already went back to his normal eating habits, and he's also going in bed with me now.. I guess he was just stressed out with the new kitten before.. But now, they are sleeping together and always giving the little kitten a bath. He is really sweet.. What I did is to always talk to him, assure him that he was not replaced and he will always be my #1 baby.. I also did what was advise to give extra time to pet and cuddle with him.. I hope he's not gonna change anymore because its making me really nervous.. Thank you so much for the advises.. Your babies are adorable.