Hi all, new here. Ok so my story is this..I have had cats all my life and last year my apartment building went pet friendly. I adopted 2 kittens from my local spca, brother and sis, and have had them now a bit over a year. They are both "fixed" and very close to each other. Rarely is one in a room without the other.
So..my friend one day notices a cat on the property of his place of business. He thinks he recognizes it as the cat he thought to once live with the people renting an apartment above his shop. A second time..he sees it again, he tries to get a closer look..it runs..he pulls out cat treats (he keeps treats on him all the time lol), tosses some at the cat..it comes out to gobble them up...and low and behold, yes it is the same cat and what do you know...3 little kittens come out from behind her...also after the treats. Seems the former tenants left a little something behind!
Ok so ...online we go looking for rescue groups to help us...no one had room..spca here is not a no-kill, and we did NOT want her put down. Weeks went by, we're feeding and caring for them on the property, cold weather is approaching! Idea! I have a spare room, I take them all in. Momma got spayed. Kittens were about 7 weeks by this time. Got a dog crate for them. And all are now warm and happy with me. Kittens at about 12 weeks were neutered, given their first shots, tested for fiv/felv..all neg..and now have been adopted out, all to very nice family's.
Here's my problem. I had momma and kittens in my spare room. Trying to slowly introduce momma to my 2 resident cats. Has not been going well. Did the exchanging of scent..feeding at the door..cracking door to allow them to see each other, I put my 2 in MY room and allowed momma out to explore rest of apartment, then put her back and let mine out. All actually seemed to go ok..till the escape. Momma jumped the baby gate behind my back while I was trying to keep her kittens from climbing it one night...She went right after my female and cornered her in the living room..meanwhile..my male was like...ok..this is not a problem and was pretty cool with her being out. He even sniffed her while she was having the face off with my female. That took mommas attention off the female long enough for her to slink away. Now momma is putting her full attention on my male who really could care less at this point. Till he walked right by momma to get to the kitchen. As soon as his back was to her, she attacked. Ok so now he's pissed. Hissing and growling at me and her. But no further fighting, he put distance between them and I managed to get both my cats into my room and eventually got momma back into hers. Kittens were still with us at that time. Forgot to mention that I think.
Ok, so I'm thinking, well momma is/was still in being protective of her kittens right? Kittens are now gone, she is still in the same room, and I'm back to doing the slow intro's all over again. But momma is now lonely and probably missing the littles ones right? So I was thinking of moving her into MY room, get her away from the room where she was in such a protective state. Problem I'm having about doing that is my cars LOVE being with me when I'm in my room and I'm not sure it's really a great idea, but if it helps momma adjust, should I do it? Or just give her more time while still in the spare room?
So..my friend one day notices a cat on the property of his place of business. He thinks he recognizes it as the cat he thought to once live with the people renting an apartment above his shop. A second time..he sees it again, he tries to get a closer look..it runs..he pulls out cat treats (he keeps treats on him all the time lol), tosses some at the cat..it comes out to gobble them up...and low and behold, yes it is the same cat and what do you know...3 little kittens come out from behind her...also after the treats. Seems the former tenants left a little something behind!
Ok so ...online we go looking for rescue groups to help us...no one had room..spca here is not a no-kill, and we did NOT want her put down. Weeks went by, we're feeding and caring for them on the property, cold weather is approaching! Idea! I have a spare room, I take them all in. Momma got spayed. Kittens were about 7 weeks by this time. Got a dog crate for them. And all are now warm and happy with me. Kittens at about 12 weeks were neutered, given their first shots, tested for fiv/felv..all neg..and now have been adopted out, all to very nice family's.
Here's my problem. I had momma and kittens in my spare room. Trying to slowly introduce momma to my 2 resident cats. Has not been going well. Did the exchanging of scent..feeding at the door..cracking door to allow them to see each other, I put my 2 in MY room and allowed momma out to explore rest of apartment, then put her back and let mine out. All actually seemed to go ok..till the escape. Momma jumped the baby gate behind my back while I was trying to keep her kittens from climbing it one night...She went right after my female and cornered her in the living room..meanwhile..my male was like...ok..this is not a problem and was pretty cool with her being out. He even sniffed her while she was having the face off with my female. That took mommas attention off the female long enough for her to slink away. Now momma is putting her full attention on my male who really could care less at this point. Till he walked right by momma to get to the kitchen. As soon as his back was to her, she attacked. Ok so now he's pissed. Hissing and growling at me and her. But no further fighting, he put distance between them and I managed to get both my cats into my room and eventually got momma back into hers. Kittens were still with us at that time. Forgot to mention that I think.
Ok, so I'm thinking, well momma is/was still in being protective of her kittens right? Kittens are now gone, she is still in the same room, and I'm back to doing the slow intro's all over again. But momma is now lonely and probably missing the littles ones right? So I was thinking of moving her into MY room, get her away from the room where she was in such a protective state. Problem I'm having about doing that is my cars LOVE being with me when I'm in my room and I'm not sure it's really a great idea, but if it helps momma adjust, should I do it? Or just give her more time while still in the spare room?