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right now i have a big problem. i have this aunt from XXX who nobody in my family likes except for my mother, who feels sorry for her more than anything.
she comes over every few months and brings her dogs. it upsets the cats, plus the house is in disarray. it's not fair that i have to rearrange certain things in the house to accomodate for the dogs. i don't bring my cats to XXX. some of my relatives have pets and don't bring them. why is she the exception?
so i told mom to tell her not to bring her dogs anymore. why don't i do it myself? i'm not the one who invites her over. if it were up to me, she wouldn't be welcome in the house at all. mom should be the one to tell her. it's my aunt's responsibility to leave the dogs at a kennel or find a housesitter. it's not our family's responsibility to maintain order when she brings her dogs.
mom and dad are going to XXX tomorrow, and my aunt is driving them. mom told me this on monday. so i tell her to tell my aunt not to bring her dogs. every day i ask if she talked to her and she says no. what are you waiting for? this morning she says she tried to call her yesterday but the phone was off. you waited until yesterday? :censor::censor::censor: is that? and every time i bring it up she plays dumb and i have to repeat myself. it's such BS.
if i come home and those dogs are there i'm gonna be really aggravated. i feel like this is the last straw (mom has a history of disregarding my opinion). i don't know what my options are at this point.
she comes over every few months and brings her dogs. it upsets the cats, plus the house is in disarray. it's not fair that i have to rearrange certain things in the house to accomodate for the dogs. i don't bring my cats to XXX. some of my relatives have pets and don't bring them. why is she the exception?
so i told mom to tell her not to bring her dogs anymore. why don't i do it myself? i'm not the one who invites her over. if it were up to me, she wouldn't be welcome in the house at all. mom should be the one to tell her. it's my aunt's responsibility to leave the dogs at a kennel or find a housesitter. it's not our family's responsibility to maintain order when she brings her dogs.
mom and dad are going to XXX tomorrow, and my aunt is driving them. mom told me this on monday. so i tell her to tell my aunt not to bring her dogs. every day i ask if she talked to her and she says no. what are you waiting for? this morning she says she tried to call her yesterday but the phone was off. you waited until yesterday? :censor::censor::censor: is that? and every time i bring it up she plays dumb and i have to repeat myself. it's such BS.
if i come home and those dogs are there i'm gonna be really aggravated. i feel like this is the last straw (mom has a history of disregarding my opinion). i don't know what my options are at this point.