I adopted to Oriental Shorthair siblings, Sasha and Brady, 2 months ago. At that time, they were 4 months old and got along really well. They were of about equal size and loved to chase each other, sleep together, etc. In the last few weeks, their relationship has changed. Brady started to really grow and become more aggressive. Now, he often bites her neck, chews on her tail, chews on her ears, bites her side, etc. Sasha is then often forced to assume a defensive posture, laying on her back and kicking him with her back feet. She does not hiss but lets out meows that definitely siganl annoyance, and perhaps some pain.
I am saddened by this because they used to be so close and I am almost regretting adopting 2 kittens, instead of one. I just want them both to be happy, but Sasha doesn't seem happy any more. I should mention that Brady was neutered a month ago and Sasha will be spayed in a week. They were at the vet recently and their health appears to be fine.
What might be causing Brady's behaviour? Could it be some sort of male/sexual aggression, even though he is neutered? Is it territorial/dominance, or is he just aggressive when he plays? Should I separate them when Brady goes after Sasha? Would Feliway help and is there anything else I can do? This is really upsetting me.
Thank you so much for your help,
Carlie
I am saddened by this because they used to be so close and I am almost regretting adopting 2 kittens, instead of one. I just want them both to be happy, but Sasha doesn't seem happy any more. I should mention that Brady was neutered a month ago and Sasha will be spayed in a week. They were at the vet recently and their health appears to be fine.
What might be causing Brady's behaviour? Could it be some sort of male/sexual aggression, even though he is neutered? Is it territorial/dominance, or is he just aggressive when he plays? Should I separate them when Brady goes after Sasha? Would Feliway help and is there anything else I can do? This is really upsetting me.
Thank you so much for your help,
Carlie