Hello everyone.
So I am wondering if all this is going normal and what else I can do to help these two be friends.
So I originally started my story in caring for feral as the cat (Mia) being introduced to the resident cat (Charlie, male 5 years, fixed) and I was concern for Mia's (5 years, Female, fixed) missing her sisters and a bunch of other things.
Mia's been in the house over a month now in a safe room. I've been taking things very slow ans she's recovering from some health issues. She barely comes out - even when I do the door wide open.
They've been seeing each other through a gate now for weeks. Over the weekend I did a room swap and Charlie did great, Mia flipped her lid. I started with the sock swap and mostly Charlie would lay beside it.
For Charlie (fixed 5 year old dominate cat with some misdirected aggression issues). He's pretty schizo about the whole thing. A sock - okay. Her blanket - one second he'll hiss at it. I try again - he's fine and so it goes with almost everything. He has tried to smell her butt too and been nose to nose with no aggression. (Once he looked like he was going to bit her and changed his mind.)
The past two days I've been sitting in the doorway petting one with one hand, one with the other. I give treats as they are doing well. Mia will leave her safe room and go to him like you would see a normal cat. Charlie sometimes makes this weird meow and then kinda does this "hop" and turns his back as he hops up in the air and walks away. Sometimes not. What is that all about?
He does get on high things at times. I think trying to show he is King.
Tonight I let Charlie walk into her safe room twice, with her in it. No aggression really. He hissed once at her when she went to him when he was smelling her food. She looked at me like "What? Why?"
Mia mostly looks at me a little scared / bewildered and with a "Why does he hate me?" look.
What else can I do to ensure a good, safe place for both of them.
(Mia is the one with the pink blankie)
So I am wondering if all this is going normal and what else I can do to help these two be friends.
So I originally started my story in caring for feral as the cat (Mia) being introduced to the resident cat (Charlie, male 5 years, fixed) and I was concern for Mia's (5 years, Female, fixed) missing her sisters and a bunch of other things.
Mia's been in the house over a month now in a safe room. I've been taking things very slow ans she's recovering from some health issues. She barely comes out - even when I do the door wide open.
They've been seeing each other through a gate now for weeks. Over the weekend I did a room swap and Charlie did great, Mia flipped her lid. I started with the sock swap and mostly Charlie would lay beside it.
For Charlie (fixed 5 year old dominate cat with some misdirected aggression issues). He's pretty schizo about the whole thing. A sock - okay. Her blanket - one second he'll hiss at it. I try again - he's fine and so it goes with almost everything. He has tried to smell her butt too and been nose to nose with no aggression. (Once he looked like he was going to bit her and changed his mind.)
The past two days I've been sitting in the doorway petting one with one hand, one with the other. I give treats as they are doing well. Mia will leave her safe room and go to him like you would see a normal cat. Charlie sometimes makes this weird meow and then kinda does this "hop" and turns his back as he hops up in the air and walks away. Sometimes not. What is that all about?
He does get on high things at times. I think trying to show he is King.
Tonight I let Charlie walk into her safe room twice, with her in it. No aggression really. He hissed once at her when she went to him when he was smelling her food. She looked at me like "What? Why?"
Mia mostly looks at me a little scared / bewildered and with a "Why does he hate me?" look.
What else can I do to ensure a good, safe place for both of them.
(Mia is the one with the pink blankie)
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