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Hi All, I come to really seek out what's best for Greg (see profile picture), he is an 7-year-old neutered male, domestic longhair, indoor cat. Also we have another 8 year-old spayed domestic shorthair cat who is an indoor cat. We live in a 1 bedroom apartment. Until about a year ago everything was fine until we went on a trip. Both cats have always been good with us gone and people visiting for food and water and play every other day or so, but after our return, Greg developed the following traits. At night he will meow and scratch at the bedroom door, if we let him sleep with us, he will crawl all over us restless and push into us (my wife and I), if I try and give him the attention he then seeks it from my wife and wakes her up. Literally the only time he will calm down is if one of us sleeps in the living room and one of us sleeps in the bedroom, even then it's not like he cares to sleep with us. He will then just go sleep somewhere else peacefully. The other cat is completely unphased by any of this.
Things I've tried:
-Speaking to the vet! His first reaction was that he may be nearing end of life! WOAH! was not ready for that. Willing to try anything else, he did give me some medicine to calm him down that did not help.
-Lots of play before bedtime/ Cat-Friendly Environment in living room to keep Greg entertained
-Calaway Defusers
-Melatonin
-Thunder Jacket
-Cat Nip
-Changing Food/Litter
Please let me know what you think, my wife has health concerns that need her to get full complete rest, I love my wife and want to sleep in the same bed but I also want a happy cat without hurting my marriage or getting rid of my cat. Any advice is welcome.
Thank you for your time and expertise!
Things I've tried:
-Speaking to the vet! His first reaction was that he may be nearing end of life! WOAH! was not ready for that. Willing to try anything else, he did give me some medicine to calm him down that did not help.
-Lots of play before bedtime/ Cat-Friendly Environment in living room to keep Greg entertained
-Calaway Defusers
-Melatonin
-Thunder Jacket
-Cat Nip
-Changing Food/Litter
Please let me know what you think, my wife has health concerns that need her to get full complete rest, I love my wife and want to sleep in the same bed but I also want a happy cat without hurting my marriage or getting rid of my cat. Any advice is welcome.
Thank you for your time and expertise!