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So I've had a bored kitten for almost a year now (she's about 10-11 months old), and since she's been so bored and energetic and I felt like she was bored when I go to work (and sometimes when I bring that work home), I got her a buddy, a 2 year old playful seeming boy tuxedo cat.
I followed the myriad of introduction threads, kept them in separate rooms for 2 weeks at first, got the new cat vet checked first thing, the towel rub, etc. Then I let them finally meet after 2 weeks of non-aggression and they seemed fine, just possible play wresting. I put them back in their separate rooms and then tried to have them meet again for an hour the next day. And I've noticed that my resident kitten continually harasses the older cat. I thought it was just play, but then it happens every time! I only occasionally see claws and snarls and I separate them, but then the next day its like as soon as my resident kitten sees the older cat, she runs after him and nips at his back, chasing him around. He tries to hide under the bed, on the stairs, under the couch, everywhere before i finally just take resident kitty and put her away in a different room.
I'm afraid that she's stressing out the older guy. I could just try the introduction all over again but the new older cat definitely doesn't like being in the quarantine room, but neither does resident kitten (she yowls if i lock her in a room out of sight of me). Their fighting or really rough play or whatever this is def stresses ME out. I try to play with each kitten for at least 10 mins in the morning and at least 30 mins in the afternoon but I'm only one person and so i naturally cannot give the same amount of time/attention that I gave to my kitten to both cats in two different rooms.
I guess I just want to vent/ ask for any advice on how you know that two cats are just not going to get along. I do realize that 3 weeks is pretty soon, but jeez, she's still a kitten, i assume its not going to get much better as she gets older, and I feel bad bringing in another cat just to be stressed in my house. The entire reason why i got him was to be a friend to my kitten...
What I've used/tried: Feliway, towel rub, perfume sprays, separation with visits (they play footsie under the door),
Is this just a time thing? How many times have you guys done the separation cycle before you just acknowledged that two cats are not going to get along?
I followed the myriad of introduction threads, kept them in separate rooms for 2 weeks at first, got the new cat vet checked first thing, the towel rub, etc. Then I let them finally meet after 2 weeks of non-aggression and they seemed fine, just possible play wresting. I put them back in their separate rooms and then tried to have them meet again for an hour the next day. And I've noticed that my resident kitten continually harasses the older cat. I thought it was just play, but then it happens every time! I only occasionally see claws and snarls and I separate them, but then the next day its like as soon as my resident kitten sees the older cat, she runs after him and nips at his back, chasing him around. He tries to hide under the bed, on the stairs, under the couch, everywhere before i finally just take resident kitty and put her away in a different room.
I'm afraid that she's stressing out the older guy. I could just try the introduction all over again but the new older cat definitely doesn't like being in the quarantine room, but neither does resident kitten (she yowls if i lock her in a room out of sight of me). Their fighting or really rough play or whatever this is def stresses ME out. I try to play with each kitten for at least 10 mins in the morning and at least 30 mins in the afternoon but I'm only one person and so i naturally cannot give the same amount of time/attention that I gave to my kitten to both cats in two different rooms.
I guess I just want to vent/ ask for any advice on how you know that two cats are just not going to get along. I do realize that 3 weeks is pretty soon, but jeez, she's still a kitten, i assume its not going to get much better as she gets older, and I feel bad bringing in another cat just to be stressed in my house. The entire reason why i got him was to be a friend to my kitten...
What I've used/tried: Feliway, towel rub, perfume sprays, separation with visits (they play footsie under the door),
Is this just a time thing? How many times have you guys done the separation cycle before you just acknowledged that two cats are not going to get along?