Hi everyone! New here. I adopted a kitten from a rescue back in October. The sweetest thing you ever did meet. He was found abandoned very young with his litter mates and was bottle fed. As a result, he's very trusting of people. He's high energy and loves everyone and everything, especially other cats. We had a neighbor that had a kitten about the same age and they had "play dates" 3 times a week and would spend hours running around chasing each other and then fall asleep curled up together. Unfortunately they moved, and my now 11 month old Salem is super lonely and bored.
We decided to get a 7 month old from the same rescue. She was found with her litter mates at 5 months old, and was the last of them to be adopted. The rescue told us she's "amazing with other animals, especially cats, but kind of timid around people". I've found the opposite to be true. She doesn't like to be picked up, but she's warmed up to me and will come over for pets and cuddles. It's been about a week of keeping her in a separate room (they both started pawing at the door), then a screen in between them (again they did well with this), and today was the first day I let them roam freely together (under my supervision). They are fine when not interacting directly with each other, but Salem is curious and excited about the newest resident. However, as soon as he approaches her it all falls apart. She keeps hissing and growling whenever he gets within 5 feet of her. He lays on his back, belly up, doing his little meows, showing absolutely no aggression, but she continues to hiss, growl, and I just had to pull him out and put him in my bedroom because she chased him into a corner and was trying to claw him. He put up no resistance and just looked incredibly confused. I don't know exactly what to do. I'm really surprised at her hostility being the new cat and being young. Should I keep them separate for a few days and reintroduce more slowly? (side note: both are fixed and about the same size; Salem is small for his age. I also live in a one bedroom apartment so the separation is difficult)
We decided to get a 7 month old from the same rescue. She was found with her litter mates at 5 months old, and was the last of them to be adopted. The rescue told us she's "amazing with other animals, especially cats, but kind of timid around people". I've found the opposite to be true. She doesn't like to be picked up, but she's warmed up to me and will come over for pets and cuddles. It's been about a week of keeping her in a separate room (they both started pawing at the door), then a screen in between them (again they did well with this), and today was the first day I let them roam freely together (under my supervision). They are fine when not interacting directly with each other, but Salem is curious and excited about the newest resident. However, as soon as he approaches her it all falls apart. She keeps hissing and growling whenever he gets within 5 feet of her. He lays on his back, belly up, doing his little meows, showing absolutely no aggression, but she continues to hiss, growl, and I just had to pull him out and put him in my bedroom because she chased him into a corner and was trying to claw him. He put up no resistance and just looked incredibly confused. I don't know exactly what to do. I'm really surprised at her hostility being the new cat and being young. Should I keep them separate for a few days and reintroduce more slowly? (side note: both are fixed and about the same size; Salem is small for his age. I also live in a one bedroom apartment so the separation is difficult)