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I have a new 1 year old cat in the home. She is a sweet girl, and was more affectionate when I first brought her home. The rescue that I got her from thought she would be a good match for me (I have a 7yo boy who is very passive). I have her in her own safe room. As soon as she left the crate (after a day) she found the small closet in the room and buried herself in back of the carpet cleaner. I have left her there and whenever I come in, I contort my body to try to pet her. I have to coax her out. When she first arrived she was coaxed more easily. Now she has moved to a softer place in the closet (on top of a comforter) but won't be coaxed out. At night she seems to be more comfortable, and when I go in the room she is usually in the window which I keep cracked so she can have some outside smells. When I go into the room now, she seems to get more freaked out by me. She gets nervous and I can tell she is thinking about darting into the closet - her safe place. It seems as though she is becoming more afraid of me, even though I haven't done anything to make this happen. The biggest thing I have done was try to pick her up to give her a kiss, and a few times she was okay with it but now she wants no part of it.
I am busy working a lot and go into the room about 4x a day. Every time I greet her with 'hellos' and food or treats. I thought that as time goes on she would be getting more comfortable, not more afraid. I am wondering if her isolation is making her more afraid of everything. She came from a rescue shelter, so she was in a room filled with cats. Now she is all alone. I try to go in when I can, and even when she doesn't want to be around me, I just sit there and do stuff on my computer (after trying to coax her out etc). Should I just continue on as is, or should I try to get her into the house? I have another cat, and they have only laid eyes on each other as i was leaving the room (and the resident was camped out on the other side of the door). I just don't know if I am doing things correctly. I know the whole introduction thing for cats, but it seems to be getting worse, not better.....
I am busy working a lot and go into the room about 4x a day. Every time I greet her with 'hellos' and food or treats. I thought that as time goes on she would be getting more comfortable, not more afraid. I am wondering if her isolation is making her more afraid of everything. She came from a rescue shelter, so she was in a room filled with cats. Now she is all alone. I try to go in when I can, and even when she doesn't want to be around me, I just sit there and do stuff on my computer (after trying to coax her out etc). Should I just continue on as is, or should I try to get her into the house? I have another cat, and they have only laid eyes on each other as i was leaving the room (and the resident was camped out on the other side of the door). I just don't know if I am doing things correctly. I know the whole introduction thing for cats, but it seems to be getting worse, not better.....