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I'm not sure what you mean by feral gene. A feral cat is a regular domesticated cat that wasn't socialized or handled at all by humans when they were young. There isn't any difference whatsoever between a feral cat and a house cat except the socialization of them. Experiences, especially when they are young kittens, form the cat's attitude toward much. Some do come around but then again others are more introverted, just like people. It seems since she came from a rather rough and sad up bringing, she didn't have proper handling or care.
Our biggest problem is that we need an indoor only cat, and 95% of the cats at the shelter are either outdoor/indoor or else very elderly. It is not right for us to take on elderly cats at this time (although I would love to whenever I have the money to do so) So if we fostered a cat, and it was right for us, we most likely would be unable to keep him as he's almost definitely be an indoor/outdoor cat. We really are serious now about finding a second cat for the both of our benefit. Yes, we are hopeful that at the very least our little girl will stop being scared of us and can at least wander around happily rather than being scared, even if she doesn't ever want to cuddle up. It is my goal in life to rescue animals, so I am trying to think of this cat as a little patient rather than a pet, as she clearly needs nurturing and help of a different kind than a confident/pet cat would. It is already starting to make me more relaxed about her, which should hopefully have a benefit on her.
I do agree this cat has ended up with us for a reason. The fact that her being on the waiting list was a year (could be even longer) says that this cat is meant to be with us. We will most likely keep her now, unless she has made ZERO progress which would mean she needs different support than what we can give her. We are anxious on whether we can find the right second cat to join our family or not now
Yes, I know some cats can carry the feral gene which can stop them ever attaching to humans. I have had many cats that were not interested in becoming close friends (I grew up on a farm with many many cats) the problem is that at this point in my life I need support from a little furry friend. Will definitely keep an eye out for a male. Female cats that I have had in the past have always been less likely to "click" with other cats than males I have had. However do you think the right female could be out there? As I said as I'm looking for an indoor only cat there's a small pool of cats I can choose from and the right candidate may not be a male
Yes a previous user has said that as well. Will definitely have a look out for males. The previous owner did say she was cuddly and sweet, but the previous has lied about everything to do with this cat. We believe she has been caged her whole life in a shed with no or very little human contact or interaction, so she is basically semi feral. She is not food driven, so treats do not work on her unfortunately. Me and my partner have agreed to only take a new cat on that we have met in person, although we are almost definitely going to go through a shelter this time and that is a requirement anyway. Fingers crossed we find the right fella to join our family!