New Cat Bullying The Original Cat

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About a year ago we adopted two female kittens who are littermates. Prior to that we had just one female adult cat. Our thinking was that since that adult cat once coexisted with another cat in the past, that this shouldn't an issue.

As the kittens grew, however the behavior of the larger new one toward the "original" cat has gotten very aggressive. It's worth noting that the "original" cat is a runt, so she is undersized. She also wasn't terribly social to begin with.

Anyways, as time wore on, the two of them never seemed to click. And the aggression between the two (new cat on older cat) seems to have escalated. The new cat regularly stalks the original cat. Sometimes she will prevent the original cat from getting to the water bowl, or stop her from getting out of a room. She will just sit and watch and wait. The older cat doesn't move because she knows that she will just be attacked the moment she tries to leave.

We have been trying various things to get the behavior to improve. All of the cats are wearing pheromone/calming collars, and we have plug-ins throughout the house. None of that seems to have done much good.

All of this stress has taken a toll on the original cat. She is constantly grooming herself, giving herself bald patches, and actively tries to hide from the other cats in the house. We rarely see her anymore unless we are in the main bedroom she seems to like hanging out in.

Initially the thinking was that the bigger new cat was just trying to get the original cat to play. To this point the original cat has shown no interest in socializing or playing with the other cats. But as the aggression has increased, we are starting to believe this is about territory. The bigger "newer" cat is wanting to stake her claim and make the original cat's life difficult. She does not exhibit this behavior toward her litter mate sister, who is also undersized. Only toward the original cat.

At this point we don't know what to do. While I love the bigger new cat, this kind of aggression toward another cat isn't something that we can tolerate much longer, so we would have to adopt her out to someone else.
 

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have you tried distraction techniques, there isnt a micarcle fix to ut, but distracting the cat doing the bullying as soon as the start to make a move and rewarding it with play or a treat once they have decided that picking on the 'original' cat isnt as much fun as playing with you
 

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Try using some other methods to rewire the new cat's mind out of attack mode, but this will require the resident cat to be out and about a little bit.

(If you haven't already, help the resident cat by having her litter food and water where she can get to it without crossing paths very much with the attack cat).

When attack cat starts in with bad behavior, have a can half filled with coins nearby, and give it a good hard shake or two.
Throw a jangly set of keys on the floor by the attack cat.
State a firm NO, and most importantly, give a big HISS. It doesn't matter the age of the cat, this is something their mama would do to teach them about stopping bad behavior.
Good luck!!
 
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have you tried distraction techniques, there isnt a micarcle fix to ut, but distracting the cat doing the bullying as soon as the start to make a move and rewarding it with play or a treat once they have decided that picking on the 'original' cat isnt as much fun as playing with you
I have tried that... and in the moment it works. But it's only a quick distraction. It keeps happening. And it probably happens a lot when we aren't home.
 
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Hi!
Try using some other methods to rewire the new cat's mind out of attack mode, but this will require the resident cat to be out and about a little bit.

(If you haven't already, help the resident cat by having her litter food and water where she can get to it without crossing paths very much with the attack cat).

When attack cat starts in with bad behavior, have a can half filled with coins nearby, and give it a good hard shake or two.
Throw a jangly set of keys on the floor by the attack cat.
State a firm NO, and most importantly, give a big HISS. It doesn't matter the age of the cat, this is something their mama would do to teach them about stopping bad behavior.
Good luck!!
Right now we are talking about getting another litter box and locking the two other cats out of our bedroom during the day so the "original" cat can have that time to herself not to be afraid, while still having access to food/water/litter. When we are home we would have all of the cats out and about. I like your idea about the car keys. We do admonish the bully cat whenever we see it happen, but it hasn't had much effect.
 
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