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Hello everyone!
My husband was disabled a few years ago, and since he has a long history with cats and is good at bringing them up, we got 2 male tuxedo cats which, 2 years later have turned out perfectly behaved and extremely playful and friendly with anyone.
Now, this is where the problem comes in. Our neighbor recently gave us her 6 month old female cat, and we have been following all the correct ways of integrating a new cat into an already cat occupied home. she is in the bedroom, comfortably with her own litter box, water, and food, even a fuzzy warm blanket to lay on. The problem with the integration is not our current cats, it is that she is attacking anyone that comes near her and doesn't seem to be adjusting to her new surroundings. I even go into the bedroom and talk to her, so she can get familiarized with my voice, and make slow, friendly move sat safe distances towards her, but she just hisses and growls and positions herself into an attack stance. I was thinking that maybe she was kicked in her previous home , but when I went over to see the cat a few times before I took her in, she was playful and friendly with me and the owners. It doesn't make sense.
After 2 days, we've reached about our limit and our expectations, that even if this cat is integrated into our home, she will destroy the calm balance we maintain in our home currently. We don't want to give up because if she acts like the way she is in a calm home like ours, then she will be deemed unadoptable and will be put down in NYC
My husband and I need to know if anyone has anything they can recommend ... This is becoming a very stressful situation for ourselves and for our cats.
Thank you for taking the time to read this..
My husband was disabled a few years ago, and since he has a long history with cats and is good at bringing them up, we got 2 male tuxedo cats which, 2 years later have turned out perfectly behaved and extremely playful and friendly with anyone.
Now, this is where the problem comes in. Our neighbor recently gave us her 6 month old female cat, and we have been following all the correct ways of integrating a new cat into an already cat occupied home. she is in the bedroom, comfortably with her own litter box, water, and food, even a fuzzy warm blanket to lay on. The problem with the integration is not our current cats, it is that she is attacking anyone that comes near her and doesn't seem to be adjusting to her new surroundings. I even go into the bedroom and talk to her, so she can get familiarized with my voice, and make slow, friendly move sat safe distances towards her, but she just hisses and growls and positions herself into an attack stance. I was thinking that maybe she was kicked in her previous home , but when I went over to see the cat a few times before I took her in, she was playful and friendly with me and the owners. It doesn't make sense.
After 2 days, we've reached about our limit and our expectations, that even if this cat is integrated into our home, she will destroy the calm balance we maintain in our home currently. We don't want to give up because if she acts like the way she is in a calm home like ours, then she will be deemed unadoptable and will be put down in NYC
My husband and I need to know if anyone has anything they can recommend ... This is becoming a very stressful situation for ourselves and for our cats.
Thank you for taking the time to read this..