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I know I am not the first or the last person to post on this site about new pet anxiety but here I am! I have read almost every other thread here about this topic and they have been helpful but I wanted to make a post of my own. I got a cat a little over a week ago and it has absolutely ruined my mental health progress. Everyone has always recommended that I get a cat to help my anxiety but what it has done is remove one of my favorite things about where I live and a coping mechanism I use often: being alone. I had no alone time growing up and only some through college until I moved out into my own apartment in August of this year. I don't want to just return the cat because I would feel like a failure and so stupid for not being able to handle it but I also can't live with chest crushing anxiety that makes me unable to eat and scared to move around in my own apartment in case I wake up the cat and he wants attention. I feel like I can’t give the cat the attention and love he needs because of my mental health.
Any help/ suggestions/ anything would be great! Most of what I have heard is that it takes time and my cat is fed and has water and clean litter but very little affection from me, I don’t want to make him live like that long term. I have an appointment with my mental health professional next week.
Any help/ suggestions/ anything would be great! Most of what I have heard is that it takes time and my cat is fed and has water and clean litter but very little affection from me, I don’t want to make him live like that long term. I have an appointment with my mental health professional next week.