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My cat is a male 5-year-old tabby that is allowed indoors and out. He's a sweety, but also very needy. He will sit and stare at me until I "follow" him to where ever he wants to go. If I don't follow him, he will either just sit and stare at me creepily or start meowing. If I don't respond to the meows, he will start biting. Needless to say, I am always the one to break rather than him.
But 9 times out of 10, it is to follow him into the kitchen to his food bowl. He usually still has dry food in it from feeding time, so he'll eat that. It's almost as if he wants me to be in the room with him while he eats. I used to be away 10 hours a day for work and he found his food bowl on his own then, so I'm not sure why when I'm home he needs me there. Sometimes he'll notice I'm gone and come back to get me so I can watch him eat.
I'm now working from home, which makes it even harder. He is constantly coming to me not only to eat, but to be entertained. I know he can play on his own, and find his food on his own, but how do I break this behavior of depending on me? Most times I throw him outside just to get some peace, but as the winter months are coming, I'm a little worried.
I should also mention things I've tried:
But 9 times out of 10, it is to follow him into the kitchen to his food bowl. He usually still has dry food in it from feeding time, so he'll eat that. It's almost as if he wants me to be in the room with him while he eats. I used to be away 10 hours a day for work and he found his food bowl on his own then, so I'm not sure why when I'm home he needs me there. Sometimes he'll notice I'm gone and come back to get me so I can watch him eat.
I'm now working from home, which makes it even harder. He is constantly coming to me not only to eat, but to be entertained. I know he can play on his own, and find his food on his own, but how do I break this behavior of depending on me? Most times I throw him outside just to get some peace, but as the winter months are coming, I'm a little worried.
I should also mention things I've tried:
- We have a birdfeeder that he watches
- I will sometimes move his food bowl into the office to get some peace
- He grazes on his dry food during the day but gets wet food at meal times
- I am a renter and my landlord has only allowed one cat, so a friend for him isn't an option
- He's an aggressive biter, so I don't want to ignore him and get to that point
- He has plenty of toys and can entertain himself with a single hairband