I'm haveing some big prob's with my family right now I'm haveing a pritty bad week all up not sure weather to
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ok first I was out with my husband on the weekend we went to see a friend of his and he wanted us to go fishing but I was not keen to go because were he wanted to go there was a good possabillity of running into a snake and it may sound dumb but I have a really bad fear of snakes they make me feel ill so I said na it's cool we will pop back round when you get back or I told Rick he could drop me at the shopping center and pick me up on the way back oh no this was not on with his stupid so called mate well he blasted me hole sale he called me names I'm sure you can imagen told me I need to see a ****** shrink he was out rightly mean and nasty and my husband just let him do it he said nothing when we got into the car I said to him I don't aprushiate the way he spoke to me and he said yeah I was not happy about it either but he said nothing I could have said something but I tend to get really nasty when I go off and he had his kids there and I did not won't to upset them but I think my husband could have said hey thats not on mate back off but nope just let him talk like that to me so I told my husband to drop me off at the shopping center he said I can't he's not going that way so I said fine drop me off at the bus stop and he would not do that either so I feel he thinks more of his mates feelings than mine ? so I went fishing and sat there both hurt and egnored worred the hole time about seeing a snake I'm so mad and I don't feel very loved right now but I think Richard should have told his mate to go jump in the lake to put it politlely and backed me up I don't think I'm over reacting or am I I don't know ? I'm feeling really low right now.
Now for problem number 2 my youngest son is 18 years old and he has to be the lasyest sod I have ever met he dose not do most of what you ask him and if he dose do something you can garantee he dose it badly I truely belive he only dose it to **** me off and he is so argumentative it's driveing me crazy I know from this it sounds like he's a normal teenager but he's not it's so bad these days that every time he's home we end up fighting and I'm truly at the stage were I am ready to pull my hair out I think he needs to be told to leave home but I do not have the strength to through him out so I am now concidering leaveing myself I don't know if I'm over reacting or am I being pooped on left right and center I could use some out side advice thanks for lisening.
Sorry to dump this here all but I have no one else to talk to about this I hope you all don't mind.
Now for problem number 2 my youngest son is 18 years old and he has to be the lasyest sod I have ever met he dose not do most of what you ask him and if he dose do something you can garantee he dose it badly I truely belive he only dose it to **** me off and he is so argumentative it's driveing me crazy I know from this it sounds like he's a normal teenager but he's not it's so bad these days that every time he's home we end up fighting and I'm truly at the stage were I am ready to pull my hair out I think he needs to be told to leave home but I do not have the strength to through him out so I am now concidering leaveing myself I don't know if I'm over reacting or am I being pooped on left right and center I could use some out side advice thanks for lisening.
Sorry to dump this here all but I have no one else to talk to about this I hope you all don't mind.