Hi everyone, its been awhile since I have posted. Some of you may remember me. I lost my sweet Pickles May of 2008. Things have been good although I still think about him often. So here is where I need the advice. There has been a cat in our neighborhood for about the last week or so walks by my house stops in my driveway then continues on, he looks just like Pickles (I thought I was going crazy). Anyway fast forward to today, we have almost a foot of snow outside, I look out and there he is, my husband is shoveling and he stops and brushes up against my husband. So I decide to feed him and give him some water (he was thrilled). I go to go back in the house and he follows me, well I say to the cat want to come in, he comes in looks around eats some more and Is VERY friendly, purring (its almost like he thinks he lives here, he is that comfortable). he is now asleep on my livingroom floor. I did post on our town website that I found him, as he is wayyy to friendly not to belong to someone. I was also able to wipe some goop off his eyes, and did notice he had ear mites. My dilemma is he is very sweet, and I would love to keep him, but I want to do the right thing and I don't want to get attached. I was thinking of letting him get some rest, and putting him outside later and seeing if he goes anywhere, if he doesn't let him come back in (it's really cold here). Any advice on what I should do would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much.