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Let me preface by saying my husband and I recently lost our beautiful 4 year old cat Chloe and we’re not sure if accepting new cats into our home was a good idea however we are so full of love we figured we might as well try…
My husband and I recently were on a local pet rehoming Facebook group when we saw a girl rehoming two kittens that she claimed to be of the same age, from the same litter, and bonded. My husband and I saw them and instantly were interested in welcoming them into our home. The woman claimed she bottle fed these two since they were born and they were excellent cats always wanting love and cuddles.. we were thrilled until we arrived to a filthy home which stunk highly of cat pee and had dog feces on the floor. The woman said the reason for the rehoming was due to the kittens being afraid of her “new” dog…
Anyway, once we arrived at the house we quickly realized the kittens were NOT the same age and one I significantly bigger than the other.Both are intact females which I knew already prior, I have every intention of getting them vaccinated and spayed ASAP.
I understand moving is stressful for all cats and we have taken a great liking to the smaller of the two kittens and she has taken/warmed up to us nicely. Our bigger concern is the larger cat. When she first arrived she hid from us and would not come out for the first two days. We tried to lay down and speak with her but she hissed at my husband and I, lunged at us, and then scratched me pretty badly at one point. So we left her alone and in the week we’ve had her she has come around and will let us get closer to her and sit near us. She will even come into our bedroom and get near us when we’re sleeping or not moving and watching tv. However if we move suddenly, cough, or even sigh she will dart but eventually come back again. I sit with her almost every night in the same room a distance away and feed her and talk to her and sometimes. I want her to be comfortable with us as her previous owner had finally admitted “She has an attitude problem. I can be petting her one minute and the next she is hissing”. I feel as if I knew that I would not have accepted the cat as she blatantly lied to me.
Now that the cat is semi adjusted to my husband and I, she redirects her aggression toward the other smaller cat. She doesn’t always hiss at her or growl but there are many times during the day that she will. She also often hisses and growls at her at night. My husband and I are severely worried that she may get the confidence to full on attack the small cat or will eventually intimidate the small cat and the small cat will stop being as playful, friendly, and outgoing as she is. I was recently playing with the smaller cat throwing a small ball back and forth (she plays fetch) and the other bigger cat came running to get the ball like she wanted to play but the smaller cat got it first so she began hissing and growling and swatting. When I try to play with the bigger cat on her own, she shows little or no interest or is too scared.
Should I be concerned? What can I do about the hissing and growling? I have raised my voice when I see her going after the smaller cat and she runs and hides and stops for a short bit but then will actively seek out the smaller cat only to stalk her like prey and then hiss/growl at her even tho the smaller cat is not bothering her. How do I redirect this behavior? Should I be worried? I have started giving the bigger cat calming treats and even got 2 feliway diffusers. I’m just not familiar with cats in that way and need any advice y’all can offer please!
My husband and I recently were on a local pet rehoming Facebook group when we saw a girl rehoming two kittens that she claimed to be of the same age, from the same litter, and bonded. My husband and I saw them and instantly were interested in welcoming them into our home. The woman claimed she bottle fed these two since they were born and they were excellent cats always wanting love and cuddles.. we were thrilled until we arrived to a filthy home which stunk highly of cat pee and had dog feces on the floor. The woman said the reason for the rehoming was due to the kittens being afraid of her “new” dog…
Anyway, once we arrived at the house we quickly realized the kittens were NOT the same age and one I significantly bigger than the other.Both are intact females which I knew already prior, I have every intention of getting them vaccinated and spayed ASAP.
I understand moving is stressful for all cats and we have taken a great liking to the smaller of the two kittens and she has taken/warmed up to us nicely. Our bigger concern is the larger cat. When she first arrived she hid from us and would not come out for the first two days. We tried to lay down and speak with her but she hissed at my husband and I, lunged at us, and then scratched me pretty badly at one point. So we left her alone and in the week we’ve had her she has come around and will let us get closer to her and sit near us. She will even come into our bedroom and get near us when we’re sleeping or not moving and watching tv. However if we move suddenly, cough, or even sigh she will dart but eventually come back again. I sit with her almost every night in the same room a distance away and feed her and talk to her and sometimes. I want her to be comfortable with us as her previous owner had finally admitted “She has an attitude problem. I can be petting her one minute and the next she is hissing”. I feel as if I knew that I would not have accepted the cat as she blatantly lied to me.
Now that the cat is semi adjusted to my husband and I, she redirects her aggression toward the other smaller cat. She doesn’t always hiss at her or growl but there are many times during the day that she will. She also often hisses and growls at her at night. My husband and I are severely worried that she may get the confidence to full on attack the small cat or will eventually intimidate the small cat and the small cat will stop being as playful, friendly, and outgoing as she is. I was recently playing with the smaller cat throwing a small ball back and forth (she plays fetch) and the other bigger cat came running to get the ball like she wanted to play but the smaller cat got it first so she began hissing and growling and swatting. When I try to play with the bigger cat on her own, she shows little or no interest or is too scared.
Should I be concerned? What can I do about the hissing and growling? I have raised my voice when I see her going after the smaller cat and she runs and hides and stops for a short bit but then will actively seek out the smaller cat only to stalk her like prey and then hiss/growl at her even tho the smaller cat is not bothering her. How do I redirect this behavior? Should I be worried? I have started giving the bigger cat calming treats and even got 2 feliway diffusers. I’m just not familiar with cats in that way and need any advice y’all can offer please!