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I have a 12 year old female cat whom I have had since she was about a year old. We have lived together with past girlfriends, other cats and dogs and have had no problems. We moved into a house about a month and a half ago and my current girlfriend moved her stuff in this last weekend. My current girlfriend has a 3 year old son and he is very friendly towards animals and is very sweet 99% of the time. However, he is very loud, very active, and basically plays as any other 3 year old would in any other household. We just moved in together 3 days ago and of course while we were moving her and her son's stuff my kitty hid under the bed while we were unpacking and sorting out the new house. My girlfriend's son was playing and wanted to get to know the my cat and decided to stick his arm and face under the bed to pet her and she hissed at him and ran out and attacked his leg and now he is very, very scared of her. He has kept his distance the last 3 days and she has wandered the house and is fine now with the move, however, whenever she sees him sitting and just playing by himself she yowls at him and hisses and tries to attack him for no reason at all. I am torn up about this and my heart is broken because I never in a million years thought my sweet girl would ever be aggressive towards anyone, let alone a child. I don't know what to do, and I have no intention of ever letting her live with anyone else because I love her with all of my heart and she has gotten me through some unbelievably tough times in my life when depression was beating me down daily. I need help, advice, or anything that can get me through this situation and help us to live together happily and make sure there are no future problems between them. If anyone has anything they can tell me to remedy this situation or slowly fix it I would greatly appreciate it.