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I adopted a +-5year old neutered male cat about 3 months ago. He appears to be a purebred modern Siamese; coming from a shelter I know odds are against, but he certainly displays many of their traditional characteristics, tho doesn't talk so much. We get along pretty well except for a few things. He WILL NOT be held or picked up or sit in a lap. He WILL NOT play with ANY toy ever created including string or feathers. He does like to bite boxes or paper plates if I hold them for him when he gets too bitey with me. He likes to bump heads, rub his chin on my face and hair,rub his paw on my face. When he does this I make a little chirrup clicking sound. But he also loves to KNEAD me with his needle sharp claws. He will lie next to me,sometimes put an arm across me or rest his head on me, but does not allow the reciprocal. He follows me from room to room and likes to sleep near me. When I pet him, which he loves and demands, he purrs and tries to bite my fingers, usually gently now (he drew blood many times our first few weeks but we've managed to get it down to him understanding "no biting" and I'm better at reading his signals.) He also tries to bite my iPad, phone,or books when I'm using them- thus my redirecting to the cardboard. So- still biting and kneading. The biting is getting somewhat better but the clawing he just can't seem to help. I gently push his paw away and say "hand." Once in a while I yelp if he catches me off guard with a clawing or bite. I try gently stroking a paw occasionally while I pet him and make the chirp sound he likes. How can I clip his nails if i can't hold him? How will I be able to get him to the vet should be need to go? He obviously was not socialized to play with humans, and fears any sort of confinement.