hello everyone, I am new to this site. I am looking for help. I have 2 cats, peanut and Linus they have been together since babies. but for a while now my cat peanut has been having issues. I moved about a year ago but I remember this starting before I moved. he has been constantly overgrooming; his back legs, his stomach so bad there's only a light coat of hair, and right above his paws where there is a line around of missing hair. he doesn't stop I have taken him to 2 different vets, got tests done all negative tried special diets, both vets said stress. I have gotten new cat trees, toys, feline air diffuser, calming sprays, and calming treats but he only would eat for a week though. nothing works. he is so loved, literally sleeps in my arms in bed every night. this cat is my life and it kills me to see him constantly licking I am constantly looking for help and can't find anything. the vets have recommend Xanax but I really don't want to do that im afraid too. any help at all would be appreciated !!!!