I'm really sorry if I ramble and/or don't make sense! I hope this is the right forum to post in... I am a busy 17 year old who wants to adopt a kitten. I have school, family, and a boyfriend to attend to. I am worried about whether my time will be enough to nurture a new cat.
I know a substantial amount of information on how to properly take care of a cat after doing much research here and around the net! However I have never been given a straight answer on how much attention I should give my cat. If I could, I would have him/her by my side every second of the day. I don't want to have to choose between nurturing my animal and spending time with the people I love. I would not feel right if I adopted a kitten and only saw him/her for a few hours a day. If I do adopt, I will most definitely be staying home with the new kitten for at least a month. After that, is what I'm worried about...
I'll be starting up my Senior year in about 2 months, so I will be unfortunately busier than ever. I will want to spend most of free time with my boyfriend, as I have been for two years. I would love to bring the kitten to his home, but his family has a very old kitty that does not take well to new cats in the house (he runs around and pees everywhere!) During the school year, I will only be home during the night hours of the week, and the entire days of Saturday and Sunday. Is that not enough time for a kitty? I also want to harness train the new cat so that I can take him/her out with me. My older sister used to have a cat that took the bus with her everywhere, and seeing that inspired me to try to train my own kitty to do that!
I also have an unfixed male cat (he's around 4) who is almost always outside. I am wondering how an unfixed male acts around fixed males/females? He is very calm and sweet, but he is also the alpha male of our neighborhood. He reeks of spray and has a few scars. How do you figure he'd react to another cat in the house? And how would the new kit act around him? We are aiming to adopt a female.
Thank you anyone who takes the time to read this and give advice. I'm really stressing about this. I love my alpha tuxedo, but he is never in, and doesn't like to cuddle anyone but my step father! I'd just love to have a cat of my own. I just want to make sure I will be able to take good care of one.
If nothing else, my boyfriend and I will adopt when we move out together. It will just take a bit longer!
I know a substantial amount of information on how to properly take care of a cat after doing much research here and around the net! However I have never been given a straight answer on how much attention I should give my cat. If I could, I would have him/her by my side every second of the day. I don't want to have to choose between nurturing my animal and spending time with the people I love. I would not feel right if I adopted a kitten and only saw him/her for a few hours a day. If I do adopt, I will most definitely be staying home with the new kitten for at least a month. After that, is what I'm worried about...
I'll be starting up my Senior year in about 2 months, so I will be unfortunately busier than ever. I will want to spend most of free time with my boyfriend, as I have been for two years. I would love to bring the kitten to his home, but his family has a very old kitty that does not take well to new cats in the house (he runs around and pees everywhere!) During the school year, I will only be home during the night hours of the week, and the entire days of Saturday and Sunday. Is that not enough time for a kitty? I also want to harness train the new cat so that I can take him/her out with me. My older sister used to have a cat that took the bus with her everywhere, and seeing that inspired me to try to train my own kitty to do that!
I also have an unfixed male cat (he's around 4) who is almost always outside. I am wondering how an unfixed male acts around fixed males/females? He is very calm and sweet, but he is also the alpha male of our neighborhood. He reeks of spray and has a few scars. How do you figure he'd react to another cat in the house? And how would the new kit act around him? We are aiming to adopt a female.
Thank you anyone who takes the time to read this and give advice. I'm really stressing about this. I love my alpha tuxedo, but he is never in, and doesn't like to cuddle anyone but my step father! I'd just love to have a cat of my own. I just want to make sure I will be able to take good care of one.
If nothing else, my boyfriend and I will adopt when we move out together. It will just take a bit longer!