I’ve never had a cat nor have I been a fan of cats. I used to complain to my girlfriend about her cat a lot because how the cat kept me up all night. In the last 2-3 weeks I’ve not said anything bad about her cat nor I have touched it because I don’t want to be blamed for anything. I love my girlfriend but, I don’t want to live with her cat. It’s an old cat and my girlfriend even said not many people like her cat since it’s not the friendliest of cats. Her sister even said the same thing but, I’m not sure why all of a sudden the cat runs from me, hides under my girlfriends bed, behind the couch, and barely lets me pet her anymore. I’ve had dogs for over 20 years, I love pets, and I’m not abusive to any animals. I’ve read some horror stories of boyfriends hitting their significant others cat but, I’m always with my girlfriend so she knows I never hit her cat. I’m worried and have been worried that this is going to ruin our relationship since my girlfriend loves her cat as she should but, what should I do to fix this problem? We talk about this a lot and now I’m running out of ideas on how to fix this issue with my girlfriend’s cat.