Hi,
I picked up a house cat turned stray a while back and finally got her to become a domestic cat again. She is shy with everyone but me but a lap crazy 4 year old spayed black and white beauty.
Due to circumstances I ended up adopting a 2 month old kitty, now 3 year old, and ever since then life has been hell. The kitty is playful and jumps on the big cat who answers by growling, hissing, showing her teeth, ears flattened and will strike back. They always fight, so much so I cannot have them in the same room.
The big cat seems absolutely terrified of the little terrorist. I've tried feeding them treats at the same time so that they might bond, they stop fighting long enough to eat and then get right back to it again. I've tried getting them used to each other's scent by using towels and such that I rub on their fur but they flat out ignored it. I am running out of options, my apartment is too small so I have to keep the kitty in my room most of the time which is unfair to the poor creature, I'm sure!
This has been going on for a whole month. I know cats often take a while to get used to each other but the situation does not seem to be improving. Fortunately the big cat does not use her claws nor does she bite but I still fear for the kitty's safety.
What should I do? If it is hopeless then I need to find a new home for the kitty, it will break my heart to part with her but it may be for the best...on the other hand I want to try everything I possibly can before I make that decision. Which is why I am turning to you all.
I picked up a house cat turned stray a while back and finally got her to become a domestic cat again. She is shy with everyone but me but a lap crazy 4 year old spayed black and white beauty.
Due to circumstances I ended up adopting a 2 month old kitty, now 3 year old, and ever since then life has been hell. The kitty is playful and jumps on the big cat who answers by growling, hissing, showing her teeth, ears flattened and will strike back. They always fight, so much so I cannot have them in the same room.
The big cat seems absolutely terrified of the little terrorist. I've tried feeding them treats at the same time so that they might bond, they stop fighting long enough to eat and then get right back to it again. I've tried getting them used to each other's scent by using towels and such that I rub on their fur but they flat out ignored it. I am running out of options, my apartment is too small so I have to keep the kitty in my room most of the time which is unfair to the poor creature, I'm sure!
This has been going on for a whole month. I know cats often take a while to get used to each other but the situation does not seem to be improving. Fortunately the big cat does not use her claws nor does she bite but I still fear for the kitty's safety.
What should I do? If it is hopeless then I need to find a new home for the kitty, it will break my heart to part with her but it may be for the best...on the other hand I want to try everything I possibly can before I make that decision. Which is why I am turning to you all.