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Hi folks!
I have a dilemma that I'm hoping to get some answers for here.
I have four cats. I got my first one almost 5 years ago (Tom) and then got my second cat when he was 2 (Chloe), for company. A few weeks before we packed up and moved to another state, a third cat was hanging around our house, obviously dumped. She was skinny and skittery but she hung around my front porch. I started feeding her and looking for a home for her but no one would take her, so I decided to bring her in and give her a home with us (named her Abby).Two weeks before the move, I did bring her in and separated her from the other two because they obviously didn't know one another. Tom and Abby got along fine; Chloe and Abby did not, a lot of hissing and spitting through the door and I did all the things I read about to introduce them but Chloe had a serious problem with her. When it came time to move, we took her with us because I simply couldn't leave this poor kitty to fend for herself!
Fast forward to now..... Chloe still hates her. We've been here almost four months now and not a day goes by where they fight with each other and Chloe is always the one who starts it. I thought that with moving into a new home, there was no "territory" staked out and that they would start to get along but nope, they still fight terribly! It's making us all miserable! Since we got here, my husband found a 4th kitten that was hurt and her little muzzle was cut so we took her to the vet and got her fixed up, shots and all (Spaying comes next month as she'll be 6 months old then --- this vet is a firm believer that spaying too young (she was 3 months old when we found her) is bad for cats). All three of them get along with this little kitten but I just can't figure out what it is that Chloe hates so much about Abby!
I love my cat but I'm at my wits' end as to what to do in order to help them get along--any suggestions??
Shannonmari65
I have a dilemma that I'm hoping to get some answers for here.
I have four cats. I got my first one almost 5 years ago (Tom) and then got my second cat when he was 2 (Chloe), for company. A few weeks before we packed up and moved to another state, a third cat was hanging around our house, obviously dumped. She was skinny and skittery but she hung around my front porch. I started feeding her and looking for a home for her but no one would take her, so I decided to bring her in and give her a home with us (named her Abby).Two weeks before the move, I did bring her in and separated her from the other two because they obviously didn't know one another. Tom and Abby got along fine; Chloe and Abby did not, a lot of hissing and spitting through the door and I did all the things I read about to introduce them but Chloe had a serious problem with her. When it came time to move, we took her with us because I simply couldn't leave this poor kitty to fend for herself!
Fast forward to now..... Chloe still hates her. We've been here almost four months now and not a day goes by where they fight with each other and Chloe is always the one who starts it. I thought that with moving into a new home, there was no "territory" staked out and that they would start to get along but nope, they still fight terribly! It's making us all miserable! Since we got here, my husband found a 4th kitten that was hurt and her little muzzle was cut so we took her to the vet and got her fixed up, shots and all (Spaying comes next month as she'll be 6 months old then --- this vet is a firm believer that spaying too young (she was 3 months old when we found her) is bad for cats). All three of them get along with this little kitten but I just can't figure out what it is that Chloe hates so much about Abby!
I love my cat but I'm at my wits' end as to what to do in order to help them get along--any suggestions??
Shannonmari65