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She is use to the four of us (me, my parents, and sibling) who have lived with her and been around her since she was a kitten, but she seems to despise everyone else, and I realize this could be an issue up ahead as circumstances can change. (Like what if I get married? What if there is someone new in our lives long term? What if at some point I move out and get roommates?)
We don’t have a lot of guests come over either, we’re often the ones going over to theirs. But on the occasion they drop by for even a minute she will growl and act very nervous, which is out of character for her at home.
I think it’s becauae the only people she’s ever really was in contact with other than family are the vets. And she hates the vets. She will go feral when placed on the vets table (because she remembers the pain of her spay surgery and thinks she’ll be hurt again) and often need to be sedated for checkups. She also seems to hate other cats (she hisses at the cats at the vets if they get too close to her crate).
And she seemed to associate anyone who isn’t family as vets or as people who aren’t to be trusted.
It doesn’t help that I’m kind of more or less not very social either. So it’s not like I have a lot of people I can help her get use to. She is too much like me.
Idk. Do cats adjust well to new people? What can I do to make sure she’s more flexible? She’s only like a year old so I feel like if I want her to get more exposure in terms of trust maybe it should be done while she is young (Although it probably would’ve helped had that been the case for her as a kitten too).
We don’t have a lot of guests come over either, we’re often the ones going over to theirs. But on the occasion they drop by for even a minute she will growl and act very nervous, which is out of character for her at home.
I think it’s becauae the only people she’s ever really was in contact with other than family are the vets. And she hates the vets. She will go feral when placed on the vets table (because she remembers the pain of her spay surgery and thinks she’ll be hurt again) and often need to be sedated for checkups. She also seems to hate other cats (she hisses at the cats at the vets if they get too close to her crate).
And she seemed to associate anyone who isn’t family as vets or as people who aren’t to be trusted.
It doesn’t help that I’m kind of more or less not very social either. So it’s not like I have a lot of people I can help her get use to. She is too much like me.
Idk. Do cats adjust well to new people? What can I do to make sure she’s more flexible? She’s only like a year old so I feel like if I want her to get more exposure in terms of trust maybe it should be done while she is young (Although it probably would’ve helped had that been the case for her as a kitten too).