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So i have a cat right now, and i have had her since she was a kitten at 8 weeks. But we never fully bonded liked i had hoped. I had lived with my parents before and with all the other children in the house she was just to scared and was rather distant with all other people. She knew to come to me for food because i was her main care giver. But she never slept with me, nor did she care to come in my room less her food bowl was empty.
Though now i have finally moved out of my parents house and into my own place. I hoped without the family interfering. I could bond with my little kitty. Which i think has on some level. Though she isn't happy all the time with me right now because her baths are becoming more frequent to because of her skin issue, I don't think that is her biggest problem with me. She has decided her favorite place to sleep is my bed, which I love but half the time I got to pet her she starts attacking my hand. She wasn't that violent before, I had her around small children her whole childhood, and she was so well behaved with them. These last few weeks have become a little more hard since we have been in my new place. And I am not fully sure why. Maybe it is because she doesn't have somewhere to hide like she did at my parents, or maybe my cat just all out hates me. Someone please help, I love her too much to send her away for a few scratches, but they are covering my arm now. And I am running low on options. No shelter near me is a no kill and due to her skin problem i don't think she would last long in a kill shelter, and I don't want to give her up. I love her too much for that, it is just beginning to worry me.
Though now i have finally moved out of my parents house and into my own place. I hoped without the family interfering. I could bond with my little kitty. Which i think has on some level. Though she isn't happy all the time with me right now because her baths are becoming more frequent to because of her skin issue, I don't think that is her biggest problem with me. She has decided her favorite place to sleep is my bed, which I love but half the time I got to pet her she starts attacking my hand. She wasn't that violent before, I had her around small children her whole childhood, and she was so well behaved with them. These last few weeks have become a little more hard since we have been in my new place. And I am not fully sure why. Maybe it is because she doesn't have somewhere to hide like she did at my parents, or maybe my cat just all out hates me. Someone please help, I love her too much to send her away for a few scratches, but they are covering my arm now. And I am running low on options. No shelter near me is a no kill and due to her skin problem i don't think she would last long in a kill shelter, and I don't want to give her up. I love her too much for that, it is just beginning to worry me.