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Please help cat lovers!!
I am so heart broken my 10 month old baby girl Pickles has not been the same with me since I got her a little brother (Shadow) 1 month ago. He’s nearly 4 months old.
They seem to get on just fine. I did the whole introduction stage as you are meant to. It took them 5 days to stop hissing/growling and after a week they where playing. It’s been a month now and they chase each other round the house, wrestle I have even caught them cuddling. Only the once and I think she had no choice hahaha. They share their food and litter boxes now so I defo know it’s all good progress and they will be the best of friends.
Before Shadow came home Pickles was my little baby so affectionate and talkative she loved to play and sleep with us everything you want from your fur baby. I work during the day and when I get home we would have at least a 15 minute snuggle I knew she missed me and I missed her she would want belly rubs, purr and want all the pets it was our little thing but she doesn’t do it anymore since I got shadow and it breaks my heart. I come in to great her. And her first I must add. She doesn’t meow like she used to she doesn’t even come downstairs but little man is there. I go to pet her she walks away and almost leans her body away from my hand. I could cry every time. My partner Tom gets in an hour later and she’s all over him. Rolls on the floor wants belly rubs, purrs. And I get nothing. I can see she loves him and he winds me up about it hahahaha as men do lol. I really don’t know what to do and it is breaking my heart. My little baby hates me but is happy with new kitty and adores my partner. He doesn’t even give her attention or feed her. I do everything!!
I always put her first at feeding time. I always try and play with her first yet she won’t play in the same room as little man. I have to shut him out for her to play but if she hears him oh she wants him lol. I even tried ignoring Shaodw just a little bit not push him away or anything. But he’s a proper little baby and loves a cuddle is pickles seeing me cuddling him and thinking well sod you then?
I just love them both so much and am so happy they are becoming best friends but why is she being like this towards me? Has anyone else experienced this after a month of new kitty and will she ever love her mumma again? XxxxxxxxX
I am so heart broken my 10 month old baby girl Pickles has not been the same with me since I got her a little brother (Shadow) 1 month ago. He’s nearly 4 months old.
They seem to get on just fine. I did the whole introduction stage as you are meant to. It took them 5 days to stop hissing/growling and after a week they where playing. It’s been a month now and they chase each other round the house, wrestle I have even caught them cuddling. Only the once and I think she had no choice hahaha. They share their food and litter boxes now so I defo know it’s all good progress and they will be the best of friends.
Before Shadow came home Pickles was my little baby so affectionate and talkative she loved to play and sleep with us everything you want from your fur baby. I work during the day and when I get home we would have at least a 15 minute snuggle I knew she missed me and I missed her she would want belly rubs, purr and want all the pets it was our little thing but she doesn’t do it anymore since I got shadow and it breaks my heart. I come in to great her. And her first I must add. She doesn’t meow like she used to she doesn’t even come downstairs but little man is there. I go to pet her she walks away and almost leans her body away from my hand. I could cry every time. My partner Tom gets in an hour later and she’s all over him. Rolls on the floor wants belly rubs, purrs. And I get nothing. I can see she loves him and he winds me up about it hahahaha as men do lol. I really don’t know what to do and it is breaking my heart. My little baby hates me but is happy with new kitty and adores my partner. He doesn’t even give her attention or feed her. I do everything!!
I always put her first at feeding time. I always try and play with her first yet she won’t play in the same room as little man. I have to shut him out for her to play but if she hears him oh she wants him lol. I even tried ignoring Shaodw just a little bit not push him away or anything. But he’s a proper little baby and loves a cuddle is pickles seeing me cuddling him and thinking well sod you then?
I just love them both so much and am so happy they are becoming best friends but why is she being like this towards me? Has anyone else experienced this after a month of new kitty and will she ever love her mumma again? XxxxxxxxX