Since we lost our other cat two weeks ago, my remaining kitty has become an attention hog! I just realized she has never been an "only" cat before, I have always had at least two and once was up to four. She has never had me all to herself and she is loving it. The only down side is that she is getting really demanding, walking on me in bed, throwing litter around, screaming at me if I haven't given her Pounce etc. Yesterday she screamed at me and refused to eat her Pounce treats and I looked to see what the problem was- there was a hair (one of mine)on the edge of the bowl! I've been very busy trying to get some baking and decorating done and all she does is get underfoot! She was never like this before, in all her previous 10 years she has been very quiet and well-behaved. She has never been spoiled in the least before, she used to want to be left alone and come see us on her own time for some loving. She wasn't even the least bit interested in cat treats until I started giving it to my other cat to try to get her to eat. I hate to label her a pest, but I work 44 hrs (and 56 some weeks) and I need my sleep. I am willing to let her do her own version of grieving, if that is what this is, but I don't want her to think I'm going to take this behaviour for the next 10 years