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Hello. I created an account here in search of help as I have no idea what to do.
I have had my female Calico named Cinnamon for all 16 years. She used to be a very brave and independent cat. We originally had another cat named Domino, a persian, and both got cats got along just fine. Domino passed away two years ago. However, last year in September we rescued a little tabby kitten that was only two weeks old at the time. Miraculousy, despite living under the neighbors house for two weeks in the hot heat, the kitten was in perfect health as we have taken him to the Vet's a few times. We named him Phoenix and he is in perfect health, despite not getting neutered yet. It's been almost a year with Phoenix. Sadly, Phoenix and Cinnamon have a bad relationship that has gradually gotten worse. For the past two months, Cinnamon has refused to leave my bedroom at all. She used to at least venture out in other parts of the house. I do have her litter box plus food and water in my room currently. I would say the problem is that Phoenix isn't a mean cat, he just wants to play and he plays too rough, like biting. And understandably Cinnamon is a 16 year old female, so obviously she is not interested in rough play. I understand that he is not neutered yet and that is a problem but lately if Phoenix decides to come in my bedroom when the door is open, Cinnamon immediately cowers in fear and runs to hide under my bed. I know Phoenix just wants to play with her or even just sniff her, he isn't trying to bully her. If he does bites her though, I have punished him by giving him a timeout to try to get him to stop that behavior. Cinnamon is constantly in fear and is always looking for the cat even when the door is closed. I close the door before I sleep and she is under the bed when I wake up. I fear that even when I do get Phoenix neutered, she will still be scared. What can I do to fix this problem? What can I do to at least get her to stop going under my bed? We do plan on getting Phoenix neutered very soon, but I'm not expecting a magical fix. I know it will take time for Cinnamon to stop being so scared.
I have had my female Calico named Cinnamon for all 16 years. She used to be a very brave and independent cat. We originally had another cat named Domino, a persian, and both got cats got along just fine. Domino passed away two years ago. However, last year in September we rescued a little tabby kitten that was only two weeks old at the time. Miraculousy, despite living under the neighbors house for two weeks in the hot heat, the kitten was in perfect health as we have taken him to the Vet's a few times. We named him Phoenix and he is in perfect health, despite not getting neutered yet. It's been almost a year with Phoenix. Sadly, Phoenix and Cinnamon have a bad relationship that has gradually gotten worse. For the past two months, Cinnamon has refused to leave my bedroom at all. She used to at least venture out in other parts of the house. I do have her litter box plus food and water in my room currently. I would say the problem is that Phoenix isn't a mean cat, he just wants to play and he plays too rough, like biting. And understandably Cinnamon is a 16 year old female, so obviously she is not interested in rough play. I understand that he is not neutered yet and that is a problem but lately if Phoenix decides to come in my bedroom when the door is open, Cinnamon immediately cowers in fear and runs to hide under my bed. I know Phoenix just wants to play with her or even just sniff her, he isn't trying to bully her. If he does bites her though, I have punished him by giving him a timeout to try to get him to stop that behavior. Cinnamon is constantly in fear and is always looking for the cat even when the door is closed. I close the door before I sleep and she is under the bed when I wake up. I fear that even when I do get Phoenix neutered, she will still be scared. What can I do to fix this problem? What can I do to at least get her to stop going under my bed? We do plan on getting Phoenix neutered very soon, but I'm not expecting a magical fix. I know it will take time for Cinnamon to stop being so scared.