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In two months I'm going to be moving from North Carolina to Colorado. I will be driving my car there with a friend. The schedule should be to drive nine hours the first two days and six hours the third day, stopping at pet-friendly hotels for the two nights. I have one orange tabby and he's normally a very social, laid-back cat. I've traveled with him to friends' and relatives' houses before and he does well in new locations--he explores but doesn't get into trouble, eats regularly, and uses the litter box with no problems.
The drive there, however, is utter hell for him.
It seems to be a combination of anxiety and carsickness, though I'm unsure how much each play into it. He shakes, loses bowel control, and pukes. He's miserable and the only thing I've found that even helps minimally is for me to sit back next to his carrier and open the top-loading door to hold my hand on him and pet him for the entire drive. The most he's even ridden in a car is three hours and now we're looking at three days. It's not feasible for me sit with him the whole time as we'll take turns driving and the car will most likely be pretty packed.
I've scoured the internet and the forum for advice from people in the same situation, but most of the information I've come across is from people whose experiences did not include cats that had such problems during the drive. Those that did, the overwhelming majority seemed to vote for medication/tranquilizers. I really, really don't want to go that route but I also really, really don't want him to be stressed, miserable, and exhausted for three straight days.
I've already tried Feliway, lining is carrier with familiar blankets/shirts of mine, covering the carrier, keeping it uncovered, letting him explore the car before the trip, driving with music/no music, driving with the windows up/down, and calming treats. The only thing that I know for sure is that he doesn't like the windows being down. Everything else had no effect. I only got him to eat one of the calming treats once and then he wouldn't touch them again.
I have the time to test out the effectiveness of new things by taking him on short (~an hour) trips to my relative's place. While it might not give me an accurate idea as to whether it will work on the move, I'll at least know if something definitely doesn't work.
I think the big question at the moment is whether or not I should invest in a dog crate for him. He currently has a large, hard-sided carrier, but I wonder if being enclosed in such a small space contributes to his anxiety. He's not the type of cat that likes to wiggle into small spaces and hide. He doesn't sit in boxes. He doesn't go into the condo part of his cat tree. He's usually sitting in the middle of the floor watching stuff or sleeping on the couch in his bed. The dog crate will give him more space and more air. However, would being able to see more contribute to his carsickness? What if he poops/gets sick in the crate? When he's in the carrier, I have it layered with towels and just roll up and pull out the one that is messed up, wiping the inside walls of the carrier down if stuff's on them. With the crate, though, there are no walls. I don't even want to imagine the mess. If I did get a crate, would it even be worth it to get a large enough size to have a litter box in there that he most likely won't use?
I'm ordering him a Thundershirt to try out, but I'm worried that if he does poop, he'll get it all over the shirt and it will be useless for the rest of the trip.
Has anyone tried something other than Feliway with good results? I'm looking specifically for a car diffuser, but I'll settle for a regular spray type if that's all there is.
And finally, any natural calming treats that really worked? Anything for carsickness? My cat is finicky about treats but I'm willing to at least try to get him to eat them if they'll help.
Even though I don't want to do it, if anyone can lend any thoughts or experiences about sedatives, I'd appreciate at least having all my options laid out for me.
And of course, if you guys have any other ideas please let me know. They say moving is stressful but this is what is stressing me out the most. Thanks in advance!
The drive there, however, is utter hell for him.
It seems to be a combination of anxiety and carsickness, though I'm unsure how much each play into it. He shakes, loses bowel control, and pukes. He's miserable and the only thing I've found that even helps minimally is for me to sit back next to his carrier and open the top-loading door to hold my hand on him and pet him for the entire drive. The most he's even ridden in a car is three hours and now we're looking at three days. It's not feasible for me sit with him the whole time as we'll take turns driving and the car will most likely be pretty packed.
I've scoured the internet and the forum for advice from people in the same situation, but most of the information I've come across is from people whose experiences did not include cats that had such problems during the drive. Those that did, the overwhelming majority seemed to vote for medication/tranquilizers. I really, really don't want to go that route but I also really, really don't want him to be stressed, miserable, and exhausted for three straight days.
I've already tried Feliway, lining is carrier with familiar blankets/shirts of mine, covering the carrier, keeping it uncovered, letting him explore the car before the trip, driving with music/no music, driving with the windows up/down, and calming treats. The only thing that I know for sure is that he doesn't like the windows being down. Everything else had no effect. I only got him to eat one of the calming treats once and then he wouldn't touch them again.
I have the time to test out the effectiveness of new things by taking him on short (~an hour) trips to my relative's place. While it might not give me an accurate idea as to whether it will work on the move, I'll at least know if something definitely doesn't work.
I think the big question at the moment is whether or not I should invest in a dog crate for him. He currently has a large, hard-sided carrier, but I wonder if being enclosed in such a small space contributes to his anxiety. He's not the type of cat that likes to wiggle into small spaces and hide. He doesn't sit in boxes. He doesn't go into the condo part of his cat tree. He's usually sitting in the middle of the floor watching stuff or sleeping on the couch in his bed. The dog crate will give him more space and more air. However, would being able to see more contribute to his carsickness? What if he poops/gets sick in the crate? When he's in the carrier, I have it layered with towels and just roll up and pull out the one that is messed up, wiping the inside walls of the carrier down if stuff's on them. With the crate, though, there are no walls. I don't even want to imagine the mess. If I did get a crate, would it even be worth it to get a large enough size to have a litter box in there that he most likely won't use?
I'm ordering him a Thundershirt to try out, but I'm worried that if he does poop, he'll get it all over the shirt and it will be useless for the rest of the trip.
Has anyone tried something other than Feliway with good results? I'm looking specifically for a car diffuser, but I'll settle for a regular spray type if that's all there is.
And finally, any natural calming treats that really worked? Anything for carsickness? My cat is finicky about treats but I'm willing to at least try to get him to eat them if they'll help.
Even though I don't want to do it, if anyone can lend any thoughts or experiences about sedatives, I'd appreciate at least having all my options laid out for me.
And of course, if you guys have any other ideas please let me know. They say moving is stressful but this is what is stressing me out the most. Thanks in advance!