Hi everybody
We have three cats, a 14 year old female, a 15 year old male and a 1 year old male. I recently got divorced and after the divorce the kids and cats have been living in the same house (bird's nest solution). Due to circumstances we have to change this to a more typical co-parenting solution where my ex-wife and I each take care of the kids for one week. The kids will live in one house for a week and then in the other house for a week.
The question now is what to do with the cats. My initial idea was to let the older male stay with me as he is more attached to me and the female with my ex-wife. The young male would also stay with my ex-wife as the female seems to handle him better than the old male.
But now my kids came up with the idea to let the young male move with them every week. The older male would still stay with me and the female with my ex-wife.
Does anybody have any experience or ideas about this?
We have three cats, a 14 year old female, a 15 year old male and a 1 year old male. I recently got divorced and after the divorce the kids and cats have been living in the same house (bird's nest solution). Due to circumstances we have to change this to a more typical co-parenting solution where my ex-wife and I each take care of the kids for one week. The kids will live in one house for a week and then in the other house for a week.
The question now is what to do with the cats. My initial idea was to let the older male stay with me as he is more attached to me and the female with my ex-wife. The young male would also stay with my ex-wife as the female seems to handle him better than the old male.
But now my kids came up with the idea to let the young male move with them every week. The older male would still stay with me and the female with my ex-wife.
Does anybody have any experience or ideas about this?