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We adopted Freddy two years ago. He was 5 years old at the time. His previous owner, we were told, was an elderly guy who got him when he was a kitten. So we expected a lethargic boy who would enjoy his new home. A sister to play with. And lots of toys. He had taken to certain toys. So cute to watch him get so excited. He took to his younger sister immediately. Here comes the BUT....He is close to my husband . Where ever his "daddy" is, so is Freddy. He calmly enjoys his daily brushing with my husband. The problem is that he is scared to death of me. Strangely, the very first thing in the morning, he will slowly approach me for ear and chin rubs. He'll roll on his back, even exposing his belly for gentle rubbing. After that, he will run like a jack rabbit from room to room to hide from me. Also, it has always been me who has tricked him into his carrier to go to the vet for nail trims. My husbands back pain doesn't allow him to help me. He goes to the vet with me trying to give Freddy comfort that he is safe.
Since Covid, our vet has stopped trimming nails. Other local vets are charging high fee's for a simple nail trim. We can not afford that every few weeks. So now my husband and I chase and trap this sweet boy into the bathroom. He fights me like the devil, but I pick him up and rock him and coo him till he's somewhat calm, then trim the nails. I recently trimmed them for the second time. This time trauma has dramatically increased his sciddish behavior. He plays less. Doesn't hang with his dad as much. Spends most of the day hiding under the bed. We feel so sorry for him. I miss him learning to trust me since the day we got him. My husband really misses the trusting relationship they used to have. He runs from him a lot now too. Can this condition be turned around?
Since Covid, our vet has stopped trimming nails. Other local vets are charging high fee's for a simple nail trim. We can not afford that every few weeks. So now my husband and I chase and trap this sweet boy into the bathroom. He fights me like the devil, but I pick him up and rock him and coo him till he's somewhat calm, then trim the nails. I recently trimmed them for the second time. This time trauma has dramatically increased his sciddish behavior. He plays less. Doesn't hang with his dad as much. Spends most of the day hiding under the bed. We feel so sorry for him. I miss him learning to trust me since the day we got him. My husband really misses the trusting relationship they used to have. He runs from him a lot now too. Can this condition be turned around?