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Lol, yeah, I'm on my soapbox again...will someone explain to me why a reasonably intelligent person won't listen to another reasonably intelligent person? Case in point...hub has been up since 8 last night.....needs to be up at midnight tonight, but refuses to go home and go to bed......has totally pissed me off, 'cause I worry about him....don't want him sick or dying of a heart attack on me or something, ....but he won't listen to me, just gets mad 'cause I begged him to go home and at least rest for a bit......think I'm going to kill him and be done with it.....
 
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But you should know he's a big strong hubby - therefore he's invincible.
That seems to be the way it works with my hubby anyway. Unless he has a cold that is
then we all have to tend to his every desperate need! Bless him
 
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Originally Posted by flisssweetpea

But you should know he's a big strong hubby - therefore he's invincible.
That seems to be the way it works with my hubby anyway. Unless he has a cold that is
then we all have to tend to his every desperate need! Bless him
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Lol, you'd think after 15 years I'd know that, NOT! True enough about the cold too, lol! BTW, love your new siggy!
 
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You may not want this advice, but I think this is valid in any relationship, straight, gay or whatever, don't act like a mother or father in your relationship. He is a grown man, even if he does not act like one (lol) you are not his mother, but his spouse.
 
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Originally Posted by Mom of Franz

You may not want this advice, but I think this is valid in any relationship, straight, gay or whatever, don't act like a mother or father in your relationship. He is a grown man, even if he does not act like one (lol) you are not his mother, but his spouse.
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Thanks.....honestly though it's not really mothering....more like nagging b***hy wife.....ugh.....
 
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Originally Posted by KittenKrazy

honestly though it's not really mothering....more like nagging b***hy wife.....ugh.....
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Oh, I understand that feeling. My BF sometimes stays at work until 4am and it just makes me angry...
 
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Originally Posted by KittenKrazy

Lol, yeah, I'm on my soapbox again...will someone explain to me why a reasonably intelligent person won't listen to another reasonably intelligent person? Case in point...hub has been up since 8 last night.....needs to be up at midnight tonight, but refuses to go home and go to bed......has totally pissed me off, 'cause I worry about him....don't want him sick or dying of a heart attack on me or something, ....but he won't listen to me, just gets mad 'cause I begged him to go home and at least rest for a bit......think I'm going to kill him and be done with it.....
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Should we all start saving for bail money now?
 
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I agree with Barbara here Cindy. Just let him get on with it, then when he starts to come down with colds etc... because his immune systems flat you can say " I TOLD YOU SO!!!!"
 
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Just print this out and show him that there are others that agree with you!!!
Could you set up a cot at work????
I'll send some bail money if needed too.
 
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Cindy - My friends husband does this (owns his own business, too) It's especially though when you are in your first year, I understand. Maybe you could tell him how sad you are that you cannot spend time together ?
If he still doesn't care, then kick his butt
 
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