hello everyone!
i want to post few behavioral problems with one of my cats
and i hope to have answers on how to deal with them.
i have three adult cats .. (plus three adorable kittens)
Rio - male (2 years), Meme - female (4 years) and Rio.Jr - male (6 months)
meme was the only one who entered our house as adult we adopted her last year.
but from day one we noticed something was wrong, she was very aggressive i even wrote here asking for help.. and it helped me understand her more
but a year had passed and other behaviors still unsolved.
i will list them for you, i have no clue of what to do with her anymore:
meme is unafraid of being physically close to human but not with cats: including her own son Rio Jr. it feels like she always on edge when other cats tries to be social with her .. and that happens almost suddenly .. example the other day she was playing by herself surrounded with the kittens and Rio Jr. was playing with the kittens... when Rio Jr. tried to engage with her then she attacked him. and carried on playing alone.
her eating style:
she didn't live with us in the first 3 years of her life. prior the adoption she lived in a farm (that is all we know about the place she lived in) her life was difficult (the previous owner was abusive she was starving, ill and physically bruised and had broken tail when we took her) she developed wild behaviors her hunting skills are excellent she eats food like there is no tomorrow (its like she think we will not feed her next time) she even eat Rio and Rio, Jr food after she finish hers, we thought it was from her infection so she have been treated from worms and we take her to the vet to check on from time to time, the vet said she have a big appetite. the other problem is the way she eats her food is a mess .. she literally drag her food out of the plate into another room and eat on the carpet and leave it the rest of food there.. she leaves the water i place close to her and instead drink from the sink. it took some time to make her realize why plates are used but still this behavior never went away. now, the other two cats are learning from her .. and its a problem .. i couldn't fix it.
litter box problem: no matter how many boxes i provide sometimes she avoids it and chooses random places around the house i personally thought she was taking revenge or something. it seems she prefer doing it on the floor specially on any carpet.
her attacks number decreased but its still there: although meme stopped attacking me (and i am very happy that she finally trusted me) but she still scratch other family members and visitors who want to pet her. she either attack with no warning or she hisses and growls. my family love her as much as i do..... i don't understand why she attack.
she jumps on family members while asleep: this behavior is troubling. i dont know why she does it only when they are a sleep. she used to jump on my bed at night too but now she only come to wake me up (paw touching lightly) when she's hungry or when she needs something .. other family members complained that she jumps on them on purpose and for no reason, i even saw her once she climbed not very high to jump on my sister while she was taking a nap.. we tried to understand why and thought she wanted more attention but her attacks didn't stop.
walking her outside the house is a nightmare: knowing she lived in a farm we take her out from time to time.. but she ends up running away to fight other cats some of them was a big cat, we used a collar and she hates it and she attack the collar and run away from it. the only reason she loves to go outside of the house is hunting and to fight other cats
these are the main troubles we deal with at the moment
thank you for your patience and appreciate your replies
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