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I know this is sort of a depressing thread. At the other house when the cats were buried id make little fences and things out of twigs and sticks for them (i was much younger) but the whole back yard was a grassy area so it just kept growing back and eventually they werent marked anymore, even though we knew they were there. Jazzy has been buried in our flower garden which is all dirt and bark, and ive been spending the week looking for something to put there. This is what i found just a couple of hours ago, do you think it is suitable? I thought if i made a plaque the paint would eventually wear off.
Theres actually something im really worried about, and for those of you who are sensitive, please do not read. The clay was really hard, and we only managed to make the hole about a foot and a bit deep, ive read you're meant to make it really deep, but mum didnt want her in the garden far from the house. We all agree that we hate this house, and that mum and dad want to move in a year or two. Im worried that because the grave isnt very deep, that if we move the new people might dig the garden up or plant something there and they cant, but they wont know about Jasmine, what do i do? Its been a week, we cannot move her, we wrapped her in a towel. I dont want to bring this up to my parents as it is too sad and morbid. But im so worried. I dont know if maybe when i move i put a marker with her name on it or leave something there that is obvious? I might move out of home before mum and dad and then what do i do??
The main thread was actually to be about what do you guys do for your beloved animals. Do you mark it, dont mark it or only have it marked for a while till grass grows? Im sorry =\\ i dont know where this thread should go
I know ive been talking about it so much, im finding it really hard too deal with. Just when i think im ok i feel bad for laughing at something funny or i start crying. Im sorry im carrying on so much
Theres actually something im really worried about, and for those of you who are sensitive, please do not read. The clay was really hard, and we only managed to make the hole about a foot and a bit deep, ive read you're meant to make it really deep, but mum didnt want her in the garden far from the house. We all agree that we hate this house, and that mum and dad want to move in a year or two. Im worried that because the grave isnt very deep, that if we move the new people might dig the garden up or plant something there and they cant, but they wont know about Jasmine, what do i do? Its been a week, we cannot move her, we wrapped her in a towel. I dont want to bring this up to my parents as it is too sad and morbid. But im so worried. I dont know if maybe when i move i put a marker with her name on it or leave something there that is obvious? I might move out of home before mum and dad and then what do i do??
The main thread was actually to be about what do you guys do for your beloved animals. Do you mark it, dont mark it or only have it marked for a while till grass grows? Im sorry =\\ i dont know where this thread should go
I know ive been talking about it so much, im finding it really hard too deal with. Just when i think im ok i feel bad for laughing at something funny or i start crying. Im sorry im carrying on so much