Ok I have a big fat cat named Howler and he use to come out to get pet and cuddled up well that is until a few days ago when my husband got me a kitten now Howler is mad a gowls all day. Is there anything i can do to make howler feel better about adding a member to the family? I still pet and cuddle with howler just to show his we still love him too but he is not the same he dont like to sit there and be pet just growls and wants to hide. Any advice?