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My cat Montressor has a lump right next to his tail. It is roughly the size of a marble. I first found it about 18 months ago, at that time it looked like a tiny, slightly raised mole, so I didn't think anything of it.
I am strongly considering willful ignorance by not pursuing a diagnosis. My reasons:
I am strongly considering willful ignorance by not pursuing a diagnosis. My reasons:
- Montressor is 18 years old. So there's not much quantity of life left, even if I were to aggressively seek a diagnosis and aggressively treat it.
- The lump is very slow-growing, since it took this long to get this big. Even if it's cancer, at that growth rate it has a good chance of not being what kills him.
- Going to the vet is a very stressful experience for him. And I'm having enough trouble keeping the peace in my house, Montressor coming back smelling of strange animals will likely only worsen his relationship with Midway.
- Quality of life is very important to me. How much quality of life would there be if I'm aggressively pursuing treatment on an 18 year old cat?
- Montressor bounced back pretty quickly from Shadow's death and is not acting the slightest bit unusual. While his arthritis is just now getting to where he has difficulty jumping on the bed (solved by putting a step stool there) he is showing no signs of hiding pain or feeling unwell. He is his normal self, the same behaviors as 2-3 years ago.