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I have two cats with me - a ~2 year old male (R2) and a ~1 year old female (Muffin); both spayed and with all vaccinations done. R2 has been part of the family for over 22 months; while the female kiddo was adopted 6 months back. R2 had a brother (D2) from the same litter who we lost a year back. We adopted Muffin a few months post D2's demise. R2 warmed up to her very quickly and both became chums within a few weeks' time.
I have a traveling job so I am out of the house for several days at times; my girlfriend looks after them and with a pet-sitter who comes in as a backup. Both the kiddos are quite comfortable with each other by now and have been living under the same roof for over 6 months.
Lately we have been observing a new phenomenon; when either of us are at home, R2 starts attacking (/violent playing) Muffin while she runs and hides. Initially we thought this was just both of them behaving like normal cats; playing and running around. But lately Muffin (who's the more timid of the two and also smaller in size) goes and hides behind doors or climbs on top of cupboards and curtains whenever R2 makes a dash for her. She only comes out once R2 focuses on other things/us.
We have noticed this happens mostly when we are at home; otherwise they seem to live quite contently (although this is more of a calculated guess). This happens 3-4 times a day when we are at home; otherwise they are quite content sleeping or laying around close to each other.
I welcome any suggestions on how to resolve this or understand this better so that we can take the necessary actions on our side.
I have two cats with me - a ~2 year old male (R2) and a ~1 year old female (Muffin); both spayed and with all vaccinations done. R2 has been part of the family for over 22 months; while the female kiddo was adopted 6 months back. R2 had a brother (D2) from the same litter who we lost a year back. We adopted Muffin a few months post D2's demise. R2 warmed up to her very quickly and both became chums within a few weeks' time.
I have a traveling job so I am out of the house for several days at times; my girlfriend looks after them and with a pet-sitter who comes in as a backup. Both the kiddos are quite comfortable with each other by now and have been living under the same roof for over 6 months.
Lately we have been observing a new phenomenon; when either of us are at home, R2 starts attacking (/violent playing) Muffin while she runs and hides. Initially we thought this was just both of them behaving like normal cats; playing and running around. But lately Muffin (who's the more timid of the two and also smaller in size) goes and hides behind doors or climbs on top of cupboards and curtains whenever R2 makes a dash for her. She only comes out once R2 focuses on other things/us.
We have noticed this happens mostly when we are at home; otherwise they seem to live quite contently (although this is more of a calculated guess). This happens 3-4 times a day when we are at home; otherwise they are quite content sleeping or laying around close to each other.
I welcome any suggestions on how to resolve this or understand this better so that we can take the necessary actions on our side.