Not in the sense of missing, don't worry about that.
Anyway, I have a 6 year old grey female named Chara, lots of attitude but also very affectionate. She used to sleep with me every night, want constant attention, sleep for hours on my chest as I watched TV.
A couple years back my mom and I consolidated homes due to financial reasons (I was out of work). Chara took a while to warm up to Mom, but they get along quite well now. In fact, it feels more like Chara is my mom's cat than mine. She rarely sleeps with me anymore, snuggles up with Mom more than me, follows Mom around. Mom attributes this to her being home all the time (retired), while I work. I frequently come home to find that Mom has fed Chara dinner already, despite my instructions that she hold off til I get home (This was to get Chara used to a consistant mealtime so she'd stop asking for wet food constantly.) Mom says that naturally Chara gravitates to the person who is around more. Mom doesn't seem to notice that this bothers me, and I don't want to seem petty, so I don't say anything. But I feel like my heart is breaking. I know I'm being selfish and jealous, but I miss daddy's little girl. I want her to snuggle with me like she used to. I almost feel like moving out so I can have my cat back!
Anyway, I have a 6 year old grey female named Chara, lots of attitude but also very affectionate. She used to sleep with me every night, want constant attention, sleep for hours on my chest as I watched TV.
A couple years back my mom and I consolidated homes due to financial reasons (I was out of work). Chara took a while to warm up to Mom, but they get along quite well now. In fact, it feels more like Chara is my mom's cat than mine. She rarely sleeps with me anymore, snuggles up with Mom more than me, follows Mom around. Mom attributes this to her being home all the time (retired), while I work. I frequently come home to find that Mom has fed Chara dinner already, despite my instructions that she hold off til I get home (This was to get Chara used to a consistant mealtime so she'd stop asking for wet food constantly.) Mom says that naturally Chara gravitates to the person who is around more. Mom doesn't seem to notice that this bothers me, and I don't want to seem petty, so I don't say anything. But I feel like my heart is breaking. I know I'm being selfish and jealous, but I miss daddy's little girl. I want her to snuggle with me like she used to. I almost feel like moving out so I can have my cat back!