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I've been on here in the past off and on on behalf of my best friend, who passed last August at almost 18. I can't even begin to describe the connection and love we shared, or the unbearable pain I've suffered through daily since her passing. There was not one ounce of me that wanted another cat. Sadie was the best thing to every come into my life, and I just had no desire for several reasons, one of which was my gf's cat, that we'd kept separated from Sadie (age, several health issues, etc.). I've been content with her 8 year old living with me, and she's helped a lot by being super sweet. This story changed on 11/06.
I'm a firefighter by trade and this particular morning, I was getting ready to leave for work. It was my morning to bring breakfast, which I'd bought the night before, but for the life of me I couldn't find it. I ended up leaving to avoid being late and arrived to find I'd been moved to the drivers seat because a man called in sick. So, we SHOULD have had breakfast covered and I SHOULDN'T have been driving this day. We decided to go to the local grocery store and get what I couldn't find, and on the way back I saw something weird. It was like a wad of dryer lint blowing across the road. This "lint" was a tiny kitten... I immediately swerved to the fast lane and hit the lights to try to make a u turn and get around (scared the hell out of the guys in the truck as they had no clue). There was a city bus and several cars that blew by behind me, and I knew in my gut the kitten was probably dead (buses hug the curb so tightly). To my astonishment, when I jumped out of the engine the kitten was looking at me and meowing angrily. I quickly scooped it up after looking for any other siblings and we went back to the station.
This tiny kitten had burnt toes, so this tells me it fell out of an engine space (warmth) and rolled out on a very busy 4 lane highway. How it didn't die from all of this, and more importantly, HOW all this happened at just the right time made me a believer that this kitten was place in my path in such a way that I couldn't just say it was a coincidence. When you look at Sadie and the new kitten, Jescoe, you'll see the similarity. So, fast forward getting a 1/2 pound 3-4 week kitten to where he is now ( around the clock feeding, litter training )and we have one glaring issue to get past, and that's the actual introduction.
Jescoe is now 3-4 months old. He just tested negative on his combo, and he's a healthy 4 pounds. Callie is a 8 year old tortie that weighs just under 10. Up to now, we've allowed them to watch each other by way of a room divider that had it's lower panels replaced by Plexiglas. I figured this way we could play with them both on either side and also leave the door open so they can watch each other.
The older cat does nothing but hiss, swat the glass and growl at the little one. I'm so worried that she's going to hurt him, and that she won't accept him into out house. As you can imagine, I can't give this kitten up. I feel like he's a divine gift, or maybe even Sadie finding her way back (who knows?). I'm just asking for links, or suggestions you might have to help. I've read a lot, but sometimes you can find that missing piece on forums for amazing people like you.
Things I've done
Used blankets to carry their scents from room to room
Used feliway in the hall right where they interact
Just bought Ryal Canin Calm
Have a script for gaba that we have on hand to use if it'll help the older cat.
I'm a firefighter by trade and this particular morning, I was getting ready to leave for work. It was my morning to bring breakfast, which I'd bought the night before, but for the life of me I couldn't find it. I ended up leaving to avoid being late and arrived to find I'd been moved to the drivers seat because a man called in sick. So, we SHOULD have had breakfast covered and I SHOULDN'T have been driving this day. We decided to go to the local grocery store and get what I couldn't find, and on the way back I saw something weird. It was like a wad of dryer lint blowing across the road. This "lint" was a tiny kitten... I immediately swerved to the fast lane and hit the lights to try to make a u turn and get around (scared the hell out of the guys in the truck as they had no clue). There was a city bus and several cars that blew by behind me, and I knew in my gut the kitten was probably dead (buses hug the curb so tightly). To my astonishment, when I jumped out of the engine the kitten was looking at me and meowing angrily. I quickly scooped it up after looking for any other siblings and we went back to the station.
This tiny kitten had burnt toes, so this tells me it fell out of an engine space (warmth) and rolled out on a very busy 4 lane highway. How it didn't die from all of this, and more importantly, HOW all this happened at just the right time made me a believer that this kitten was place in my path in such a way that I couldn't just say it was a coincidence. When you look at Sadie and the new kitten, Jescoe, you'll see the similarity. So, fast forward getting a 1/2 pound 3-4 week kitten to where he is now ( around the clock feeding, litter training )and we have one glaring issue to get past, and that's the actual introduction.
Jescoe is now 3-4 months old. He just tested negative on his combo, and he's a healthy 4 pounds. Callie is a 8 year old tortie that weighs just under 10. Up to now, we've allowed them to watch each other by way of a room divider that had it's lower panels replaced by Plexiglas. I figured this way we could play with them both on either side and also leave the door open so they can watch each other.
The older cat does nothing but hiss, swat the glass and growl at the little one. I'm so worried that she's going to hurt him, and that she won't accept him into out house. As you can imagine, I can't give this kitten up. I feel like he's a divine gift, or maybe even Sadie finding her way back (who knows?). I'm just asking for links, or suggestions you might have to help. I've read a lot, but sometimes you can find that missing piece on forums for amazing people like you.
Things I've done
Used blankets to carry their scents from room to room
Used feliway in the hall right where they interact
Just bought Ryal Canin Calm
Have a script for gaba that we have on hand to use if it'll help the older cat.
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