I mentioned this in my recent thread in the Nutrition section. My Kippy, while certainly eating better than before, has begun acting differently. He used to be a very vocal, perky, affectionate cat, and while he does have his moments of being bright-eyed and bushy-tailed still (like when he knows he's going to get fed or when I can get him to play), he is otherwise lethargic and acts rather distant from me.
Some of this I figure I can chalk up to age and sickness (fatty liver disease), but the thing is he perks right up when he sees my boyfriend. I don't know why, but he adores this man and acts very much like his old self. He won't give me the time of day anymore, though. If I put my hand down to try and call him over, he looks the other way. He won't cuddle or headbutt me anymore, which he did a lot in the past. And while he has always been a temperamental cat, he seems to have more mood swings now than before, complete with growling, scratching, hissing and biting.
I can get him to purr still, especially when I use his favorite brush on him. I haven't been doing anything differently like medicating him, and I try not to overstimulate him since that sometimes gets him riled up. He just isn't as happy as before and I don't know if it's something I'm doing wrong or not. I thought with a better appetite might come better behavior. He doesn't get up and walk away from me or hide from me, but he acts like he puts up with it when I try to snuggle him.
Some days he's better than others, but it seems like the "blah" days are becoming the norm anymore. He doesn't seem to be depressed; I've seen him like that and he will just lay on the floor and stare into space for hours, won't even get up to eat or drink. No, he definitely has the ability to get up and move, and he does. He hops up into his favorite nap spots, cleans himself, eats, uses the cat box normally, goes up and down the stairs just fine. He just seems annoyed with me and I don't know why.
I don't want to just cut off all physical contact with him, but I worry I'm going to smother him with attention and make him upset. I miss my kitty, but I'm not sure what to do.
Some of this I figure I can chalk up to age and sickness (fatty liver disease), but the thing is he perks right up when he sees my boyfriend. I don't know why, but he adores this man and acts very much like his old self. He won't give me the time of day anymore, though. If I put my hand down to try and call him over, he looks the other way. He won't cuddle or headbutt me anymore, which he did a lot in the past. And while he has always been a temperamental cat, he seems to have more mood swings now than before, complete with growling, scratching, hissing and biting.
I can get him to purr still, especially when I use his favorite brush on him. I haven't been doing anything differently like medicating him, and I try not to overstimulate him since that sometimes gets him riled up. He just isn't as happy as before and I don't know if it's something I'm doing wrong or not. I thought with a better appetite might come better behavior. He doesn't get up and walk away from me or hide from me, but he acts like he puts up with it when I try to snuggle him.
Some days he's better than others, but it seems like the "blah" days are becoming the norm anymore. He doesn't seem to be depressed; I've seen him like that and he will just lay on the floor and stare into space for hours, won't even get up to eat or drink. No, he definitely has the ability to get up and move, and he does. He hops up into his favorite nap spots, cleans himself, eats, uses the cat box normally, goes up and down the stairs just fine. He just seems annoyed with me and I don't know why.
I don't want to just cut off all physical contact with him, but I worry I'm going to smother him with attention and make him upset. I miss my kitty, but I'm not sure what to do.