I had to bring my 1 year old female to the emergency room on Sunday night because she seemed to be in distress, and had a sudden onset of vomiting. I thought she had swallowed something.
Long story short: They kept her overnight and treated her, but when I brought her home, my 3 other cats (one of whom is her sibling) were extremely hostile to her. She definitely smelled like a kennel (or vet facility), so I assumed this reaction would abate, as soon as they realized who she was. It has been three days now, and she is still being treated like an outsider! The others avoid her, and when they meet at the food bowl (or wherever), she gets hissed at and chased away. She is a petite female, and has always been at the botom of the pecking order. But they always all got along fine - until now.
I feel very bad for her, since she went through the stress of a hospital visit, and now her housemates hate her! I am trying to compensate by being extra affectionate to her, and scolding the others if I catch them hissing at her or being aggressive. Is this scenario normal? Am I making it worse by favoring her (temporarily), and making the others jealous?? And has anyone had a similar experience, i.e, when your cat comes home smelling like a kennel, the others react to him/her badly?
Long story short: They kept her overnight and treated her, but when I brought her home, my 3 other cats (one of whom is her sibling) were extremely hostile to her. She definitely smelled like a kennel (or vet facility), so I assumed this reaction would abate, as soon as they realized who she was. It has been three days now, and she is still being treated like an outsider! The others avoid her, and when they meet at the food bowl (or wherever), she gets hissed at and chased away. She is a petite female, and has always been at the botom of the pecking order. But they always all got along fine - until now.
I feel very bad for her, since she went through the stress of a hospital visit, and now her housemates hate her! I am trying to compensate by being extra affectionate to her, and scolding the others if I catch them hissing at her or being aggressive. Is this scenario normal? Am I making it worse by favoring her (temporarily), and making the others jealous?? And has anyone had a similar experience, i.e, when your cat comes home smelling like a kennel, the others react to him/her badly?