Hello everyone! Today Iris got spayed, she is about 6 months old now. We got her home a few hours ago, and she is locked up in the bathroom. The vet made sure to tell us that we needed to keep her cone of shame on, and keep her locked into a small room for 10 days. She is very active, and absolutely hates not being able to see us constantly especially me because she follows me like a little shadow and sleeps with me every night. I have anxiety, and her being locked up is killing me. I feel like I am doing something so horrible keeping her locked up and I started crying, but I know it's only 10 days out of her whole life and it's just my anxiety making me go a little crazy. She meows at the door and scrapes at it, and I'm worried about her possibly hurting herself or damaging the door. Is there anything I could possibly do to keep her from not going crazy? I've read threads before that said their kitty got spayed and they pretty much just let them rome the house afterwards, is it just a "vet" thing to say keep them locked up for 10 days or is it truly how long it takes? I don't know if I should give her any toys, and Ive been thinking of possibly putting a radio right outside the door just so she has some backround noise? Me and my boyfriend were off today and tomorrow so we will be able to spend more time with her but then we go back to work on Wednesday. Right now we just have the vent on in the bathroom so it's not completely quiet. She got internal stitches and the outside was glued together. I just feel like a bad kitty momma and want to do what's best for her and try to keep her comfortable. She just has her litter box and bed with the blanket on top in there with her right now. Any suggestions on how to keep her calm? Or me?!